Hello, You may want to check out JUDO!
Keep in mind you will want to train someplace close to home. Reason is because it will be easy to go and come home and less time traveling.
Make sure you check out the classes before you sign up and have respect of the ways the Teacher teach their students. (go several times before making a choice). Is the hours and days work for you?
Stay away from Tournment oriented schools. Tournment fighting is total different from real fighting.
Visited as many places as you can and get a feel for each place and the people there too.
Why JUDO? My son does High school judo and practices Kempo near home. In judo...it is real hands on learning and can be use right away..it is not very lethal or aggressvie style of fighting. But it works great!
If you punch and hit someone...the law will look at it as assult and battery...Judo throws are more passive? ....I am not a lawyer or police officer. Please check the laws in your state!
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Please let us know what you have decided? ............Aloha