Wing Woo Gar49 11
Grandmaster
Iām asking the name of the Tai Chi guy that you met.For the first couple of years I thought it was him. But then I started to realize that it was me.
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Iām asking the name of the Tai Chi guy that you met.For the first couple of years I thought it was him. But then I started to realize that it was me.
The one that could crush you like a bug.For the first couple of years I thought it was him. But then I started to realize that it was me.
I don't drop namesIām asking the name of the Tai Chi guy that you met.
Despite the title, the underlaying question is "What's the purpose of doing TMA?" Many would say it's great exercise. True, but one can lift weights, do push-ups and run to stay in shape. The options are endless and specifically designed to reach that goal. Some would say to strengthen their spirit but there are many options for this, too: Meditation, philosophy, religion, etc. All these can develop one's world view and spiritual attitude more directly than MA. So, there must be some other over-riding motivation to do TMA.
Some would say to gain confidence. With public speaking? Dating? Job performance? More than likely it's more primal - the confidence that one can deal with a physical attack Now we are getting closer and perhaps more honest as to why people really get into MA. They want to feel safe and be able to protect their family.
Most of us have a lingering doubt or fear of battle. I believe this is much more common than one may think as few would openly admit it. Our ego tries to hide it, even from ourselves. This core lack or presence of such confidence I think provides a backdrop for one's life in general. It's a trait that can make us meek or feel able to face the world. For some, it prevents them from walking down the street at night or from standing up to a bully. It's not a good feeling. Isn't mitigating this lack of combat confidence the real reason most decide on getting into MA? While TMA does get one in shape and foster a beneficial spirit as by-products of training, isn't the main goal its martial aspects?
The further we stress the side benefits of TMA (including to some extent, sport) the more its core purpose suffers. Much like the public schools stressing social engineering and parenting goals that result in the undeniable loss of their core purpose - teaching reading, writing, math and general knowledge. A lot of TMA is guilty of this, teaching techniques without realistic application and spending time on concepts that do not advance its core purpose of self-defense. The question may be where do we draw the line?
Not really. A lot of the working guys I know (mechanics, farmers, builders) have some sort of hobby to do in their spare time. I knew a guy who worked at the same factory dad did who painted really competent pictures of woodlands in bloom, for instance. Or the dude I worked with at my current place who used to cosplay as a ghostbuster, to take something more modern. And long may it continue. A man cannot and should not spend his entire life working. Life is bigger than the grind. These activities are also typically less expensive than other pursuits such as drinking.One of the realizations I have made is that hobbies are a sign of privilege.
Some people dedicate themselves to board games like Chess and Go.
Some people dedicate themselves to hitting a ball back and forth like tennis and Ping Pong.
Some people dedicate themselves to weapons that we no longer use in modern society, such as those found in HEMA (Historical European Martial Arts) or Kenjutsu.
Despite all this, so many people have lifelong pursuits towards activities that do not solve world peace or world hunger. It doesn't explicitly make the world a better place.
Many humans are so well off that they can afford to do activities that are unrelated to survival.
There exist tribes where the word "exercise" does not exist in their language because physical activity is naturally woven into everyday life. The idea of dedicating a period of time to waste your energy by moving around is foreign to them. Yet humans are so well off that in most societies, the word "exercise" exists as a concept. But to hunters and gatherers, this is a foreign concept. In their life, running on a treadmill probably sounds like a waste of energy.
There are so many hobbies (not related to martial arts) where I think: "Wow! That seems like a waste of time." Yet, people do them.
Hunter-gatherer groups have always used 'exercise' in the form of games and competitive feats of all kinds to display and demonstrate prowess of different aspects of hunting and gathering skills. Shooting, throwing, running, climbing, and other feats of endurance and strength that extended into matched play, and sometimes not so 'play', formats including wrestling and hitting each other (leg, arm, push, pull and full-body) to establish hierarchy and status within the group and in 'friendly' interaction with other, neighboring groups. Those activities not only developed skills for hunting and gathering, but for defense and attack against other groups and individuals. The urge to 'practice' was encouraged by parents and peers for the sake of survival. Those basic abilities are primal and the urge one has to engage their development is almost hard-wired for most people.There exist tribes where the word "exercise" does not exist in their language because physical activity is naturally woven into everyday life. The idea of dedicating a period of time to waste your energy by moving around is foreign to them. Yet humans are so well off that in most societies, the word "exercise" exists as a concept. But to hunters and gatherers, this is a foreign concept. In their life, running on a treadmill probably sounds like a waste of energy.
What loot do you drop though, just out of interest?I don't drop names
A couple of drops since joining MT.What loot do you drop though, just out of interest?
Could you share more detail on this?Boxed and wrestled competitively from preteen into my twenties. Then I met a taiji guy who could crush me like a bug.
Oh ok. So nobody of note.I don't drop names
Why not drop them again?A couple of drops since joining MT.
Did you try em?
Ever try fighting someone whose body feels as though it's entirely composed of a non-newtonian fluid?Could you share more detail on this?
We can all learn from a fighting detail. Hope you don't mind sharing your experience.
There have been times I was able to dominate a better fighter because I had abilities they werenāt trained for. They were still the better fighter, in my opinion, because they would defeat more random fighters than me. And if they had fought me a few more times (and maybe had a bit of instruction on dealing with me), theyād quickly start dominating me.Boxed and wrestled competitively from preteen into my twenties. Then I met a taiji guy who could crush me like a bug.
Iām not a big fan of āshouldā about martial arts. People like what they like, and thatās fine. I liked the challenge of working on aiki and nuance. That kept me training. I could have learned to fight faster - and probably better - if I put the same time into something more direct, but I wouldnāt have put the same time into it.Regarding the OP, I'm of the opinion that martial arts should be about the original self preservation aspect above all else. But that's just me. I think very few people stay with it for that reason, and there'd be a lot of schools going out of business if the main priority was martial. We'd probably get some of the rough and tumble types back, but I don't know that's enough. And there are a ton of people getting big benefits from the other aspects of training. Other than maybe gymnastics and dance, I can't really think of anything that can give you the subtle bodily control and precision that the TMA's can. That in itself is a worthy goal.
And honestly, if someone really really needs to learn how to handle themselves, they probably need it sooner than later and MMA or boxing is going to give them usable results much much faster than 99% of TMA schools. I'm betting "back in day" usable results came much faster with TMA than today due to training methodologies. So it probably just boils down to people doing it for enjoyment nowadays. My dad practiced kyokushin so I was pretty much born into karate. A dojo just feels like home to me. The smell of a well used dojo is super nostalgic and comforting for me lol.