Today's Discussion Roundtable: Affect

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A long time back, when dinosaurs strode the Earth, before Martial Talk, before Instant Messaging, before HTTP, when e-mail addresses (if you were lucky enough to have one) had !s in them, I did Kajukenbo. Al Dacascos was in Portland. He'd moved his school from Murray Road to Highway 8 right across from the Lexus dealership and the Dairy Queen. One of the new features of the school was notebook pages and lists of requirements for every student at every level.

I couldn't stand the half handwritten half typewritten badly photocopied pages. So I typed them into MacWrite and printed out master copies. Strange things happened because of that. I ended up editing the IKF newsletter for a couple years and tried to make working class guys from Hawaii sound like college professors - a challenging job of editing. They also had me go to a couple of the yearly meetings and write them up making it sound like everyone got along swimmingly and peace, love and brotherhood were the orders of the day.

These are martial artists we're talking about. Let's say that a bit of selective blindness and some out-and-out lying was required. Watcha gonna do :shrug:

The first meeting was in a hotel. Tiel and I were supposed to direct everyone to the meet-and-greet as they arrived. It wasn't hard. A few people were wearing Kajukenbo t-shirts of one sort of another. But the rest? There was a look, an affect that was very common. We didn't miss many. There was a sort of walk, almost a swagger, that a lot of them had. There was a certain sort of erect carriage, highly developed forearms, and almost a swagger that set them apart from everyone else.

I think Tiel had it pegged. She was talking about a group of the senior practitioners and said "They're Palama boys. They grew up on da Islands and some of them never did adjust to the mainland. Most of them [that group] except X and Y and Z are still kids. They take their martial art seriously, but they're basically tough guys, brawlers who are up for a fight on Saturday night." There's a quality to the way a lot of them move that reminds me (surprise, surprise) of a lot of Kenpo stylists. It's like the torso is a solid gun platform, and the arms and legs moving around are the guns. I don't know how to express it.

Now, that's not to say that all Kajukenbo practitioners are like that. Not at all. But when you compare a chunk of them to a lump of other martial artists it sort of stands out in the aggregate.

Just recently I was reading an Australian kids' book called "Toad Rage". That led to thinking about Cane Toads and the last thing I tried to put in the Kajukenbo newsletter. And that finally led to the particular Kajukenbo Look and what stands out in people from other styles.

Some of them really stand out. I don't know exactly what it is that screams "Cop" in a person's bearing, but Phil Messina's people all seem to have it, even the ones who are not in law enforcement.

The smug superiority and false politeness of just about every single Ki Society Aikidoka I've met never fails to set my teeth on edge. It's led to more than one unfortunate but amusing incident :rolleyes:

When Tiel met the three koryu practitioners who teach under Ellis Amdur here in Portland she said "Thugs. Well behaved, educated amiable thugs." And she's right. They're not that sort of person, but they sure carry themselves that way.

Krav Maga was a special case. When I took it I talked to the instructor, and we've had conversations with others. They all agree that if you don't have the right affect you aren't going to make instructor. Now, that's a little extreme, and I think it's unnecessary. But it's their party, so they can do what they want to. I think it's interesting that they're aware of the fact and use it.

A few things really stand out in the Thai boxers we've hung with. They don't swagger. They don't tend to brag. There's a certain value placed on politeness and humility though not subservience. There's also a serious "Show me" attitude. You make a claim, you'd better be able to back it up. That and the sort of toughness that comes from knowing you're fit, strong and can take it as well as dish it out.

It's sort of similar to the MMA guys. They look and act like, well, serious athletes in an extremely demanding sport. Excellent overall muscular development and a certain confident grace in movement. And you tend to find the arrogance of the serious competitor coupled with very good sportsmanship.

A lot of people who do FMA don't have much contact with Filipinos. Still, there are things that rub off a lot. A few years ago I would have said "quarrelsome". To some degree I still would. Hey, I call 'em like I see 'em. And I see 'em like I was :) There's more at work. And I think I've figured part of it out. In a lot of the "Chopstick Culture" Asian martial arts - Korea, Japan, China - there's a very hierarchical tradition. You have a rank, a title and seniority. That tells everyone (including yourself) who and what you are within the group. Things and people move in well-defined ways.

Among the FMA there's a lot of organizations and some fancy titles and ranks. But it's more fluid. I swear that every guy who had a fight with his teacher moved the other side of town, made up a new salute and became the Grandmaster of his own slightly modified system :)

It's less like a beehive than a wolf pack. In the hive your duties will change, but who and what you are is always rigidly defined. Among wolves it's all about respect. The respect you get and your position is always up for negotiation. Back down from a challenge, and you've negotiated yourself downwards. Make too many challenges and you're a troublemaker. Challenge too high or too low, and you're not to be taken seriously.

I think that's why there's a stereotype that eskrimadors will fight at the drop of a hat, and if one doesn't drop they'll throw in their own. It's not entirely or even mostly true, but it stands out compared to a number of other traditions. And I think that's a good part of why.

When we did more FMA we picked up on it. We took more things as challenges and were more ready to see how our steel was tempered. Of course, we were also almost twenty years younger. But that couldn't have anything to do with it. Nah :D Tiel definitely picked some of it up from Suro Mike Inay's group when she studied there.

Just to pick an example, we had a table at the Oregon Knife Collectors' show once years back. A guy who later made quite a name for himself started talking trash about Guro Inosanto. "He's got decent stick work, but that's it. He doesn't have any real martial arts." Now, people talk trash about Guro Inosanto all the time. It's usually pretty clear that it's a reflection on the guy doing the insulting, so you let it slide. At the time Tiel took it as an insult to her teacher's teacher and therefore a challenge. She was half out of her seat with her sticks in her hands. The dude didn't notice or see me tug her down which says a lot for his situational awareness :)

The point isn't who would have won the fight. It's that she had that FMA attitude of "Don't make challenges. Never back down if you are challenged."

Or there was the story Tony Ramos told about when he was working as a cop in Vacaville. The PR-24 had just come out, and everyone was getting trained. When the instructor uttered the sneer "Well, I see you're still carrying a baton," it's like a Greek tragedy. A Greek tragedy right after the main character has insulted Blind Tiresias and gone against the Will of the G-ds. It ends a short act later with the instructor laid out on the floor.

These are generalizations. Obviously. Obviously. Obviously. No doubt. But there's a surprisingly large kernel of truth in some of them. You can learn a few things from the exercise. It's hard to say how much is self-selection and how much is induced. That varies from school to school and person to person.

One thing that's pretty clear is that nobody is qualified to apply the lens to his or her own style. It's like trying to see the surface from the inside. And all of us know we've got a case of "What I do is great. If there were something better I'd be training in it," when we're being honest.

So what are some of the things that strike you about different traditions or styles? What can you look at in the practitioners that stands out and distinguishes them from other MAists?
 

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I've known and been friends with Al for a number of years. On the surface Al was always a gentleman to me and taught his system the same way I teach mine. Many were the time our students went toe to toe, sometimes we won, sometimes we lost. I am not arguing about the way his students were, but I do find if interesting that being we were so far apart in styles yet so similar in attitude. They were always a joy to fight because when you got in the ring you knew they were going to be there for you and not running somewhere else.
 

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Social adaptation on a very quick scale. It doesn't take long to begin acting (subconsciously) like those with whom you socialise. Marine Corps basic training was 13 weeks. When I came home for a few days after gradutation everyone I spoke with said they could see the difference. Years after leaving the Corps folks say they can still tell I'm former military by the way I move. It wasn't just the physical training that led me to be this way. It's the social interaction and the pschological interaction within that group. The more intense the interactions the longer the effect of the "affect" stays with you. You won't see this as strongly in the other branches of the US military. I believe it goes the same way with the martial arts. The KI aikido guys set your teeth on edge but I'm sure that the guys from other styles of aikido would give you another feeling. It's the group (or wolf pack) mentality that rubs off on the rest of the pack.
 

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Is it just me, or do others remember reading Black Belt magazine, and whenever they had an article on TaiChiChuan with a picture of the Instructor, the Instructor's eyes had a special look to them? Like he practiced meditation a lot or something like that? I believe that people who practice that TaiChi end up with a serene look in their eyes and their face, but that may be just my impression.

I have seen some TKD Instructors that have a very scary look to them. I do NOT mean that as an insult! It is not something that is a bad thing, it is something that is very special.

Tellner, if you ever author a book, I will be sure to buy it. That was an amazing post! Its so true, isn't it? Different Martial Arts produce people with mannerisms and characteristics particular to their group! Its true!
 

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This is a very interesting topic. Well done, Todd.

The question is about the culture of different MA styles and how that information gets transmitted to individual practitioners so they `know', in effect, how to behave. What kinds of cues are given that we pick up on?

One thing is clear to me: it's not just martial arts where you find this. At the ski school where I taught lo these many, we trained beginners so that they became excellent technical skiers, and excellent technical skiers so that they became racers. And our racers had a different look to them when they raced. They were doing the same things, technically, as other racers from other hills, but they carried it off in a way that was unmistakably unique, a very intimidating demonstration of decisive, aggressive ski-to-ski weight transfer involving a kind of relentlessness—I am going to make my line through the gate so short it will probably disappear, and how are you going to match that?—which I never saw racers from any other hill be able to carry off. I think that's affect, in the sense that Tellner uses the expression: technical movements guided by a readily identifiable attitude. Some of that attitude is general human feeling, and some of it is more specialized and technical: I can torque this ski into a pretzel just by shifting my weighting front to back through the whole length of the turn and leave just a groove in the snow no wider than a quarter—can YOU do that?

When you're really, really good, technical elements become something that you no longer have to fight to master; instead, they become part of your expressive palette, your toolkit that you combine in all sorts of combinations to achieve specific effects. But there are many different ways to present these combinations. Imagine a sentence of English written in two dozen different fonts: Robin is a spy, Robin is a spy, Robin is a spy, Robin is a spy... same message, same general pattern of contrast between the shapes of any two letters, but tremendous difference in each case, eh? You can do what you want technically, but use the particular style to add an extra bit of meaning to what you're communicating. So, inevitably, your attitude is going to emerge in how you use those technical elements....
 

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Great post Tellner and very insightful. Things do rub off on people such as mannerisms, movement, attitude, etc. We are after all sociable creatures.
 

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An excellent Post and very insightful into the ways of people in the MAs.

I personally respect them all and endeavor to understand each style/system and respect those who practice it. What you have put down is excellent and it makes me think of respect all the way.

The military portion is so true, still today, people can tell that I was military all the way.

You can take the individual out of the MAs or Military, but you can't take the MAs or Military out of the individual. Yes I added alittle to that statement, but it fits all the same.
 

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Not strictly related to martial arts:

I work as a bouncer. After work one night, I was sitting around with the rest of the guys, the owner, and a few bar staff ejoying a couple of quiet drinks. Suddenly there was a commotion at the front door. Three of the guys sitting closest to the door hauled themselves of their stools and wandered out to see what was going on. I was tired, a little drunk and on the other side of the bar, so I stayed put.

One of the bar staff remarked to no one in particular, "It's funny how they all have that 'bouncer' walk". I'd never really thought about it, or noticed it before, but as soon as she mentioned it, it stood out like canine testicles.

I immmediately started paying attention to how a person carries themselves. Not just their mannerisms, but the way they walk, how they look around and observe their environment, how they stand, etc. It's come in handy more than once at work, and I think my 'radar' has improved also.
 

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Another point to note here is how to move without conveying who and what you are. That is a whole different skill set that can be very, very important.
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Another point to note here is how to move without conveying who and what you are. That is a whole different skill set that can be very, very important.
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That's one of my strengths, but my wife doesn't appreciate it :)

At 250 lbs, and 6' I can either pull the "large and in charge" look, or the "don't pay any attention to me, no one else does" look. I do it almost subconsciously, depending on the confidence of the person I'm talking to. If they are confident, I show more confidence. If they appear insecure, I act with meekness.

It drives my wife nuts, though. She thinks I should act confident all the time. Confidence is attractive, after all. But it also gets you into more trouble. If I stand up straight it looks as though I'm issuing a challenge, even she admits that. It's a tough line to walk.

But, even in my "meek" attitude, I can't hide things like balance, situational awareness, and body awareness.
 

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