Dear Kevin:
".....I will continue to travel to Korea because it is a benchmark of training and technique of the kind I am looking for - and not readily found here in the states - and frankly, the Koreans I found in Korea so far are quite different than those here in the US - they are willing to share knowledge and experience without predjudice......"
Sorry to throw you into shock, guy, but I am right there with you and if anyone wants to listen I am more than willing to share why I am agreeing with someone with whom I have the odd philosophical difference on more than one occasion.
I was absolutely floored at how very different the folks I trained with in Korea were from the folks I trained with in the States. People gave of themselves because they were all together on the same journey and not because of some hidden agenda or as an act of guile. Sure it is true that Koreans are not queuing-up to train in KMA and I suppose there is a kind of sadness I feel about that still. All the same, the folks who DO come to train are all about training and sharing, and supporting and promoting their art. Students respect their seniors and seniors support their juniors. The most senior get some definite perks but I could find no exploitation of this and the care returned by the most elderly practitioners was of almost a "grandfatherly doting" rather than the imperious administrative model I have seen in the States.
To make the contrast even stronger I must report that I grew increasingly fretful whenever I would check my e-mail while in Korea and read contributions on various Nets here in the States. The whining, nastiness, bickering and mean-spirited-ness stood in such strong contrast to the acceptance and comraderie I was enjoying during my training over there.
I must say in all possible honesty that I have grown increasingly jaded to finding that sort of experience here in the States and it is worth it to me to wait and save my money for a single two week experience over there than anything I could possibly find here. In the last few years I have given free seminars, traveled at my own expense and freely shared whatever I could with anyone who was interested. The attitudes I have experienced in return, including suspicion, arrogance, ignorance and small-minded-ness, make continuing to bang my head against the wall little more than simple self-abuse. Oh, sure, I'll still make my thoughts known if I think it will help someone out but my money is on "the old country". If people want to play around with "home rule" I say, "go for it". Everybody needs a hobby.
Best Wishes,
Bruce