I'm new to TKD. I'm primarily a Chinese stylist but I took this up just because I liked the uniform and the kicks. (I'm a woman so I like outfits...) Anyway, I thought it'd help my balance because I'm hearing impaired and always had trouble with kicks and anything requiring balance. My kicks are really awful and it's discouraging; I took it up over the summer and took this month off out of embarrassment more than anything else. The last time I was there I was trying to learn the turn kick; couldn't get my balance and looked like hell trying. I'm 40 - I know it's late to learn it but I just enjoy martial arts so I never let my age or gender stop me from trying something new. To be honest, I'd like to learn TKD from black belt and beyond. I think it has a lot to offer, if only I could get the kicks and yelling down....
OK, CatNap, listen to me: I was
fifteen years older than you are now when I started TKD. I've been doing it for five years. By working fairly intensely over that time I brought myself from barely being able to lift one foot off the ground to knee height without falling over to the point where I can chamber a side kick above my waist, snap the side kick out
hard at ribcage height or higher, and stay frozen in that position —maximum extension of the kicking leg—for more than a minute. And I'm nothing special, physically. You have fifteen years on me, and you're female, giving you definite flexibility advantages.
There is an excellent book about the nature of balance by Scott McCredie, titled
Balance: In Search of the Lost Sense, which looks at balance as one of the human senses and explores its neuropsychology and its relation to general cognitive functioning. One of McCredie's points is that balance is very pliable: it can be trained and developed in all kinds of specialized ways. He actually provides a number of drills that can be used to improve overall balance ability.
Loren Christensen's
Solo Training books give excellent advice about balance training as well.
So it can be done. Just take the long term view. Figure it'll take you a couple of years to the point where you can really balance completely comfortably on one leg. The time's going to pass anyway, right? So you might as well have something to show for it at the end. Do balance and kicking drills systematically and by the time you're an advanced colored belt you should be able to display excellent balance abilities. Just be
patient....