When a guy basically insults the instructors style by email saying things like I don't think this will work or I saw this video and this is actually better than what you do or I have knowledge in certain areas and believe this. I mean the guy can't even go to the guys school to talk to instructor face to face about his issues he hides behind a computer and does it and from what we've seen even if he did answer his questions perfectly this clown would still have some issue like oh but jackie chan did it better in rush hour
Really, as an instructor, who has the knowledge, you should swallow your pride. It is obvious that he is intetested but he keeps running into instructors who think what they teach is dacred knowledge. I run into that all the time and have ran into it all across the u.s.
He is looking for real arts...not sport. He doesnt want a competitive instructor. He wants a real one. Hence all of his questions.
I actually think its refreshing, to see someone be so picky instead of just going with the crowd and training in untested systems.
If it doesnt work in combat...to some people its useless and a waste of time and effort to even train.
He seems to be one of those people.
Researching and asking questions about every art, is the right thing to do.
A large percentage of instructors have never even been in a real altercation. Yet, they pretend that they have knowledge simply because they have trained for years.
Its just not the reality of actual experience. I dont care if you are an infinity dan ranking or grand pooba of whatever system. A controlled environment such as competition, is not helpful in actual self defense situations.
Now, this is from my personal experience and is my personal observation.
As soon as I hear a blackbelt or instructor say they have never been in an actual fight. I know training with them is useless, for me.
I know some people train for different reasons...and I believe you should train what your heart desires, even if it is competitive, but make sure you know what your instructors actual experience is, before training with them.
To choose the martial way of life is a huge step and any real instructor, would answer this guys instruction...with a smile on their face.