This is observation based on centuries of awards and honors for soldiers
Those aren't awards. Those are acknowledgement. I would argue acknowledgement is stronger than a reward. Reward systems are usually something that can be of monetary value, a resource of value,. Acknowledgement is a simple as saying "Thank you. I appreciate your efforts."
Acknowledgements are often of no other value than "The feeling that one is valuable." or the feeling that's "One's existence and characteristics have been acknowledge." No one in this world want to be useless of be of no value. This is so important that many people have killed themselves when they have felt this way for too long. Acknowledgement can come from someone greater or lesser than the person. For example,
I serve my country. I'm acknowledged by that country's leaders who I see as higher than me.
I saved a person. I'm acknowledged by that person and others who aren't in a higher social rank than me. My own personal experience of this was to that I protected a teen from being beaten up by an adult. After I left that country, that same teen came across my wife. She told me that he remembered her from that day. Even though, it wasn't directed at me. The appreciation of what I did was of value and I would be lying if I were to say that I didn't feel a sense of pride for such a small act from me to mean something greater to someone else.
This same type of acknowledgement is also why, I don't feel strong about the belted system from a student's perspective. My question always returns to "Do you want to be acknowledge for your skill, or do you want to be acknowledge for wearing a colored belt." I already know this answer because there are some who only see the belt as color as value and not the skills and effort.
- I wear a black belt so that people acknowledge me even though my skills are low.
- I wear a black belt as a symbol that my skills and effort have been acknowledge by those who are more skilled than me.
These are the 2 driving forces I see the most in belted systems. Those who lean more to 1 will always place emphasis on the belt. Those who lean more than 2 rarely talk about the belt. But are more than happy to show their skills that have been acknowledge.
Yesterday I helped a customer who wanted to reward me with a bottle of wine, a restaurant gift card, or something of monetary value (meaning something that money had to spent on.) He asked me what I wanted. I kindly said a nice review would be more than enough. He wrote a email directly to my boss, my boss rewarded my effort with a cap. Now I have 3 ugly caps that I'll never wear.
Now the question is. Whose acknowledgement did I want, the customer or my boss? Acknowledge me by speaking of my good deeds or acknowledge me by giving me a cap that I'll never wear. Which one would be of more value? The monetary object or the verbal recognition and acknowledgement?
Some people have all the money in the world and are liked by thousands but they are still unhappy because a specific group or a specific person doesn't acknowledge them.
Honors, accolades, and visual signs of recognition are all important to many of us. We like to achieve, but also for others to know we've achieved.
I know a Jow Ga practitioner who has dozens of trophies and certificates from other martial arts organizations, he has written a book about Jow Ga and has taught Jow Ga to others, He has been recognized by other Jow Ga teachers overseas. He is still empty inside regardless of his achievements. The cause of this emptiness is because one or 2 groups in the U.S. do not recognize or acknowledge his Jow Ga skill, knowledge or ability. I know this because he speaks of his awards more than anyone I know. He always has his awards on display when he does videos. He's emptiness will not be filled because the more he talks about his trophies the further away he gets from what he truly desires.
For me as a martial artist. No belt color would be of value to me. If we were all color blind then those belts would be useless. I can't acknowledge you with a belt because I don't train in your system, nor do I teach you. I don't keep track of anyone's belt rank in this forum because I don't want to acknowledge the belt. I want to acknowledge the person's skills and effort. Anyone can put on a black belt or give themselves a title and some do. As my acknowlegment to other martial artists, I will not honor your efforts and your skill by not seeing beyond the belt. When I talked about
@Tony Dismukes , I didn't mention his belt. But I spoke a lot about his skills.
The reason I'm saying this is because I think we sometimes get confused as to why we like the belts. Now I'm speaking as someone who took karate. As a kid, I was invited to come back to the school that I trained. The teacher told my mom that I was good enought to have a higher belt ranking. As a kid, this puzzled me becasue I had been absent from class for months and as a result had done nothing to earn it. As a child I was taught that I had to earn things and people had to earn things from me and that I should not give things freely. This was the worst thing I could hear from that karate school. To give me something I have not earned was a slap to my face. I still feel the same way today. Even if respect is given to me freely I will still seek to truly earn it. I don't think I'm special and since I'm not special, I know that there are other people who feel the same way. For me I don't want people to acknowledge me for my belt.
People want to be acknowledge for the color of their belt. Yet, there are many we personally admire who we never talk about their belt color. We always talk about their skill or their knowledge. Yet we want others to see the color of the belt? Just a personal question that I think people should ask themselves so that they can identify if it's truly the belt or the skill that they wish people to acknowlege.