Okay. Serious answer now.
No, SD and fighting are the same apparently, so perhaps you can explain how the SD skills Threat Awareness & Evaluation, verbal de-escalation and The Fence are fighting skills?
It depends on your definition of Self Defense. I do think these skills are contextual. They are also helpful for some people and likely not all that helpful to others, particularly for those people who will not have opportunity to really develop skill beyond training.
Or how a mugger holding a knife in your face, or a wife being strangled by her abusive husband, or a woman who has been dragged into an alley by her hair by a sexual predator isn't self defence anymore, because it's not a consensual fight, and only consensual fighting is SD.
Depends on your definition of Self Defense. I, personally, would agree that these are all self defense situations. However, I have been saying consistently that they are all very different, and there is very little overlap between these situations. Self defense training needs for a wife in an abusive relationship is going to be profoundly different than for a guy walking around in bad parts of town, or a woman who is being dragged into an alley by her hair.
My point earlier in this thread, which I really don't think you have taken the time to read, is that self defense training can be very effective, if it is specific and well designed. In other words, a self defense class designed for cops isn't going to be very useful for a line cook or a web designer. But if time is taken to design a program based on a specific, identified need, it can be very helpful. And if done with a control group, along with reliable data and measurable outcomes, it can be improved over time to become more helpful.
And, based on what I've seen, I think the physical training, whether it's Ameri-to-de or BJJ or MMA or whatever it is that you do, is the least important component. There is as much evidence that Parkour or Tae Bo are as helpful as MMA.
Or explain how it is only SD if there are only two on you, and no weapons, and you are stood five feet apart throwing exploratory jabs to test weakness in your opponents response that could be exploited later in the fight, because consensual fighting and SD from non consensual criminal violence are the something aren't they? So if it's not one, it can't be the other because they are the same.
This is like your fantasy. In years on this forum, the only person I can recall who says this is you.
Can you do that for me, smart ****?
Well, I did my best.
Doh!
because they aren't the same clever ****.
Well, okay.
Ummm...
I'm sick of you and all the other lovely idiots on this board, and I'm done with MT
Goodbye.
Well, alrighty then. If you do happen to get this far, I will only point out one thing which might help, and this is just speaking for myself. I think I have consistently agreed, for the most part, with your definition of self defense. When I post comments like the one that apparently provoked this temper tantrum, it's not because I disagree with you. It's because you are saying something I believe is obvious to everyone on this forum, but you say it like it's some pearl of wisdom only you truly understand.
It's not that people don't understand your definition. They just don't agree with it entirely. You have created a false dichotomy where two people fighting is never self defense. And that's fine if it's your definition. However, most people think all of the things you state above are SD, AND ALSO have a less exclusive definition that covers some things you insist are not SD. For example, some of the lovely idiots around here would agree that if you get into a consensual fight outside a bar, it's not self defense. They might, however, say that when that other person pulls out a knife, it is now a self defense situation. Other people would include the entire fight as a self defense situation.