LoneRider
Purple Belt
Sorry to flood this board with now three posts on affairs of the heart but since coming home from Iraq they've been pushed to the forefront of my mind.
Perhaps also the fact that I'm entering a new career in the US Army after four years in the US Navy is also causing a bit of consternation for me emotionally (even though it was a desired career change I still have my apprehensions).
The three main traits I look for in a woman are thus and not in any particular order (all three of them are equally important and must be met):
Some ask why don't I date Filipino women. I hate to be blunt but they remind me too much of my relatives to elicit desire out of me.
I believe the root of that issue is the one serious fight me and my father have had in an otherwise great father/son relationship. When I was a teenager and in my early 20s (I'm 26 now) Dad tried to insist I date a Filipino woman and I violently refused. It lead to more than a few fierce arguments and thus my longstanding refusal to date 'my own kind' as someone once put it.
I just wonder if my preference for Caucasian women means I'm contending with an inherently smaller dating pool?
Perhaps also the fact that I'm entering a new career in the US Army after four years in the US Navy is also causing a bit of consternation for me emotionally (even though it was a desired career change I still have my apprehensions).
The three main traits I look for in a woman are thus and not in any particular order (all three of them are equally important and must be met):
- Attractiveness: I don't want to be a jerk but this is an important trait. If I can't look at her it's impossible to date her. Now she doesn't have to be super-hot. Goodness no. I tend to prefer cute; girl next door type of brunettes in the looks department.
- Personality:Kindness and compassion are huge turn-ons for me. And being a dog person is yet another turn on (as I have a dog myself).
- Intelligence: I like someone I can have an intelligent conversation on almost anything with.
Some ask why don't I date Filipino women. I hate to be blunt but they remind me too much of my relatives to elicit desire out of me.
I believe the root of that issue is the one serious fight me and my father have had in an otherwise great father/son relationship. When I was a teenager and in my early 20s (I'm 26 now) Dad tried to insist I date a Filipino woman and I violently refused. It lead to more than a few fierce arguments and thus my longstanding refusal to date 'my own kind' as someone once put it.
I just wonder if my preference for Caucasian women means I'm contending with an inherently smaller dating pool?