MMguirk. You are very right. It should not bother me what happens in the Kan. The point was being made about a grade level and I was stating it happens in the "legit" systems as well. I don't care but I have been the subject of online witchhunts in the past as have fellow schools so it bears to reason that I might have an opinion that would bother me.
But again it is not my concern. So correctly I will let it go as soon as it is done here
As for training and being punched in the face, no I wouldn't charge you. My teacher has broken my ribs I never charged him.
However lets say your son goes to my school, and I teach him a lesson by whacking him that hard. That would be Ok with you.
Maybe just a perception. It was mine.
Done deal, glad the lesson was learned. My opinion stands, I am sorry it doesn't mesh with yours. I appreciate your opinion on the matter.
First off thank you for answering the question in the manner it was asked.
I'm not following the "legit" and witch hunt thing so I'm not going to appreciate your feelings on the matter. I'm not you obviously. However, it sounds like you are taking past transgressions from other people and projecting onto people you don't know.
May I ask what BujinGodai (dojo)is? To me it is an english compound of Bujin and the Godai. Divine warrior and 5 elements. Now, if your answer is you are teaching Ninjutsu then I can imagine the people hounding you and what not.
I know you mentioned you were once a member of Bujinkan but have since left. If you are still claiming to teach Ninjutsu then I'm sure there are people harrassing you. Right or wrong it's not my business but I think I get why you get pissed.
Now, theoretically if I had a son training under you and you whacked him hard to teach him a lesson would I get mad at you?
Depends:
Did my son do something stupid? In this case I would whack him after you! Yes, in all honesty. This is why I've never been in trouble with law and pay my taxes! I wouldn't injure him though.
Did you whack him just because you could and get a sense manhood from it? I would beat the snot out of you. Or you'd beat the snot of me. In any case our relationship would be over anyway.
One of the things you mentioned about not liking Japan training is the lack of attention to protocol. Well, harsh training is sometimes necessary. Please do not associate this with vindictive and cruel.
Last time I saw a Japanese senior teach a Japanese junior sword kamae, the poor new guy was getting whacked about the ears and head because his kamae was poor. Did he get mad? No. Did he try harder to fix his kamae? Yes. It was a long night for him while the rest of us went on training other principles.
In the U.S., in all probability the guy would have quit and claimed the dojo is full of jerks who don't know what they are doing.
What we in the west see as cruel or mean(sorry for the cliche) is a form of kindness. Now you can disagree or agree with it that's fine. Your opinion on the matter won't change what I do either.
No worries, it's been a slow work day.