Training On My Own Now

Discussion in 'Tang Soo Do' started by Runs With Fire, Nov 2, 2016.

  1. JowGaWolf

    JowGaWolf Grandmaster

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    Your training focus is not in alignment with their teaching focus and there's nothing wrong with that. I'm always running my mouth about the importance of training martial arts based on the purpose in which it is to be used. Your focus seems to be more aligned with self-defense or competitive sparring (Lei Tai or continuous sparring). If there is another school that has that focus then you can just change schools. Changing schools will allow you to build on your existing techniques. If there isn't another school then you would need to find one that teaches with the focus of self-defense and competitive sparring.

    Just from my own experience in my style. Training Jow Ga to do the forms correctly is not the same as training Jow Ga for self-defense. A brand new world opens up when a student trains with the focus of self-defense.
     
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    I'm not sure what that has to do with my comment. My point was that TSD can be taught with a practical approach and intent. In that case, there's no reason BJJ's practicality would be much of a surprise.
     
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    I don't know how good this school is, but they incorprate some basic BJJ.
     
  4. JowGaWolf

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    I can't stand when people get like this. There is no equal growth and achievement when it comes to personal development. Self-development is not a comparison challenge.
     
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    I'm one of those people. I try to find solution within my own system. As long as I'm able to find a viable solution then I'll keep at it. The only grappling system that I want to take now is shuai jiao.

    Eventually I'll probably end up learning a little BJJ, but for now that's way down the road if at all.
     
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    just realized this is an old post
     
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    You are 2nd Dan, are you not teaching at some level? If your school if full of people younger (much younger?) than you I can certainly see your quandary. A grappling style would certainly compliment your TSD. If there are no other TSD dojangs in your area the most similar would be TKD particularly Moo Duk Kwan.
     
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    You’re newly married and your spouse is also an instructor at this school? Do you not train with them?

    Have you talked to them about your feelings and thoughts on this?

    This may be an opportunity for you to consider. Expand your horizons. Perhaps your spouse would be interested in this as well.
     
  9. Runs With Fire

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    This thread was started two years ago, but I'll play ball. When I'm on the floor, I get serious. I don't like to play around. I'm no jerk, but the people who can't be serious just grind my gears. I started at 20 years old. For most of the time, I was the oldest student, most were 13-15 years old. My wife teaches 1st-3rd grade in a school PE "enrichment program" once a week. She chose martial arts out of tennis and dancing. I chose martial arts because I got in a bad situation She does martial arts for fun and sociality. I train for preparedness, don't care about fun. She hates sparring and grappling because it's so confrontational. Most of the black belt study is working on forms. For my purposes, forms are mostly a useless waste of time. They have no practicality outside of the dojo. They are only usefull in a forms competition.
     
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    I’ve probably missed an update along the way, but what is your training situation now?
     
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    I train Krav in a school once or twice a week 2hrs as work and family allow. I work on combat accuracy and draw/fire with my pistols as well as well as general handgun handling. Took a few firearms courses recently. General exersise, cardio with a bit of light streangth training in there too
     
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    If I were you, I would try a second MA to study now. It's not like you will be giving up your black belt or throwing away everything you've learned. You could take some time to expand your skills and find a school that values the same things as you. It seems to me that many schools out there love competing and going to tournaments (not really a huge deal to me).
     
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    I know this is an old thread, but I wanted to know, out of curiosity...

    How were you learning the forms? As there are alot of techniques in forms apart from kicking and punching... For example there is throwing, trapping, joint locks, holds, gouging, breaking, etc... The closest example of how we are taught the applications for forms is this from Iain Abernathy.
     
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    I agree, when I join the Navy there was no Taekwondo schools where I was station, so I train in Kung Fu long fist. It was the same but different. Learning a new Martial Art added to my skills, it did not diminish my Taekwondo skills. It made me a much better Martial Artist. Most of the best grand-masters knew other Martial Arts ,than the one they taught.
    Kung Fu taught me how to slip kicks and punches, how to redirect the force of the attack. It made me look at things from a different perspective, It made me a much better fighter.

    I feel for the person who started the post. I have trained in schools I though were lacking, so I quit and train on my own, I never could do it for very long. Training on your own is very hard, I have tried it many times. The discipline to train with no human interaction is very hard.
     
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    I agree with what you are saying, but what I really like is the this link.
     
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