Shinobi Teikiatsu
Green Belt
i really like wearing a white belt. nobody expects anything from you.
jf
That reminds me of a statement I made while I was in band back in middle school.
I played the euphonium and was first chair all the time. My best friend was second chair, but eventually got beaten out and became our permanent third chair (not that it was his designated spot, but he constantly got beat out by another one of the players). The four of us (there was a fourth chair) got to talking one day, and the conversation went as such
Rob: To tell you guys the truth, I think the ones that have it the worst here are the first chair and the last chair.
Best Friend: Why is that?
Rob: Because when you're first, and you stay first, you're EXPECTED to be first, and once you start to fall off, you're pushed to keep being first. Being last chair is the opposite. You pretty much are the weak link, but if you somehow manage to make it up to any other chair, then the teacher knows you have the capability to be good, and pushes you harder and harder to be, and then gets disappointed if you don't make it.
Second Chair: What about second chair?
Rob: You have to live in the shadow of first chair. You're too good to be in the lower ranks, but not quite good enough to show off. You also have to be able to be the balance between the first and third chair, because if you aren't able to keep up with the first chair, then HE sounds like the bad one, and if you can't keep up with the third chair, then you and the first are ruining it. You have to be the one that connects the group.
Best Friend: And me?
Rob: Yeah, no one cares about you, really. You're not competing with him to be second chair, you've been third forever. You're not bad enough to be last chair, but you don't apply yourself enough to get up high enough in the seating arrangements. If you play awesome, then you make 3/4 of the section sound awesome, so everyone loves us. If you suck, then 1/2 still sounds good, and the other half people know are just there to make sure there's a balance in the band. All you really have to do is know the music, and nobody expects anything from you.
Kind of a long allusion, but your comment reminded me of that discussion.