TallAdam85
3rd Black Belt
YAHOO PERSONALS I am thinking of becoming a memebr to maybe find a date just wondering does any one use it or have a reviews about it i am just asking before i sing up for 20 a month
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Pale Rider
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Desperate there Adam ?? I myself wouldn't waste $20 for a personal ad when you really wouldn't know what's boiling behind the pot. If you catch my drift. I would suggest if you want to find someone on the net - do it in a chat, messenger service - that's free and you can talk all you want. But in the end be careful as you really don't know who (or what) you are talking to. Take it from someone who knows what the internet can do.
Several people I know have liked their experiences with match.com.
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Mark Weiser
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Amyone can "play any role" role on the internet you fake pics and Id's and even buy software that will change your voice. I would not recommend using the Internet to meet a potential partner or date. Too many dangers can occur.
Sincerely,
Mark E. Weiser
Child Safety Specialist
National Security Alliance
"We are trained to educate you on the dangers of the Modern World"
Sincerely,
Mark E. Weiser
Child Safety Specialist
National Security Alliance
"We are trained to educate you on the dangers of the Modern World"
Flatlander
Grandmaster
The grocery store and the library or University cafeterias are the absolute best places to pick up nice women. I have never met someone who had a useful experience with computer dating. (That lasted, and I can print here, anyways)
I did the Yahoo, Match, and even the very expensive, very stupid, Eharmony thing...
They didnt live up to my expectations.
:idunno:
They didnt live up to my expectations.
:idunno:
You make it sound like there are better ways. What are they? If you meet someone on line, and they aren't who they say they are, you bail. Just like real life. Dating online, gives you the freedom to write and get to know a person before you ever deal with them in person. You can even exchange phone numbers and talk to them for hours, days, or even months. A woman can be murdered by a man she meets at church just as quickly as online. Work relationships are about stupid (trust me on that one). Most reputable dating services verify identities (somewhat) and you eventualy meet and get to know the person that they didn't mention earlier... just like real life. I haven't used a dating service, but I don't see how the dangers you mention are not just the hazards of dating in general.Mark Weiser said:
Sean
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Mark Weiser
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I have am speaking of real life here. The problem with internet dating is you can pretend online to be something completely different. The danger is this when you meet this person for the first time after being on the Internet. There have been cases of murders yes or even kidnappings for one of unsuspecting victims going on a date to meet the first time. I would rather date someone I have meet in person and built a repore with. I meet my wife at work and have been married for 12 years.
If you feel you can handle the situation then go on and take the risk. But I am speaking that there are many dangers and you should limit your exposure to them as much as possible.
If you feel you can handle the situation then go on and take the risk. But I am speaking that there are many dangers and you should limit your exposure to them as much as possible.
I personally know of four couples who met on the internet via dating sites and they're all happily married now. So for me , I can say it does work. It takes time and unfortunately money but then again so does going out to the bars and whatever other methods there are in meeting someone. At least with them they profile you and pre-match you to someone that you at least have a reasonable chance of hitting it off with.
But it does depend also upon what exactly you're looking for.
The aforementioned sites (here) are good ones. But if you're looking for something specific (mind you I get junk mail from competitive sites ALL the time trying to get me to join them (and pay)).
There is a site where if you're looking for a sex partner at AdultFriendFinder.com and even for more specific sex Alt.com...
Church groups have their own meet-em-on-the-net sites as well.
There's even several specifically for the hearing impaired (deaf).
Sooo, whatever you're looking for 99.999% is the best odds you'll get on finding it.
Mind you those that say FREE is actually misleading. You'll see the matches and so forth... but if you ain't paying you ain't gonna be saying anything to them. Only their "premium members" will get to actually send a mail / flirt /whatever! to those you are saying "hey, she's cute!" about. Likewise they can't contact you.
Pictures do help as well.
Good luck!
and...err... wish me the same
But it does depend also upon what exactly you're looking for.
The aforementioned sites (here) are good ones. But if you're looking for something specific (mind you I get junk mail from competitive sites ALL the time trying to get me to join them (and pay)).
There is a site where if you're looking for a sex partner at AdultFriendFinder.com and even for more specific sex Alt.com...
Church groups have their own meet-em-on-the-net sites as well.
There's even several specifically for the hearing impaired (deaf).
Sooo, whatever you're looking for 99.999% is the best odds you'll get on finding it.
Mind you those that say FREE is actually misleading. You'll see the matches and so forth... but if you ain't paying you ain't gonna be saying anything to them. Only their "premium members" will get to actually send a mail / flirt /whatever! to those you are saying "hey, she's cute!" about. Likewise they can't contact you.
Pictures do help as well.
Good luck!
and...err... wish me the same
I've had friends who've used match and yahoo. tried them myself more out of curiosity than anything. match was better. make sure you post a pic, though, because people ignore you if you don't, because it looks like you're hiding.
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Spud
Guest
I met my GF on match.com. WeÂ’ve been together for 2.5 years. So, I guess IÂ’m a satisfied user. A basic rule is donÂ’t set up any meetings until youÂ’ve exchanged e-mail and phone calls for at least a month. That gives you a chance to explore some things in safety and thin out the herd. Use common sense, meet in public places, etc. match.com gives good safety tips. Have somebody else read your e-mails. When my girlfriend was chatting with guys she was really excited about the one guy who was looking for an open relationship. Then she figured out he was married and wasnÂ’t talking about verbal communication She misread a couple of my e-mails, but her friends cleared that up. Lucky for me.
Photos - depends: we never exchanged photos, but were honest about our physical attributes and it wasnÂ’t a problem. If somebody is demanding a photo right away, that may tell you about their priorities.
I know people who’ve had disappointing experiences on match.com, but not the creepy evil type. But I have two friends who dated guys from church and dance classes – the guys ended up being serious stalkers.
She misread a couple of my e-mails, but her friends cleared that up. Lucky for me. Photos - depends: we never exchanged photos, but were honest about our physical attributes and it wasnÂ’t a problem. If somebody is demanding a photo right away, that may tell you about their priorities.
I know people who’ve had disappointing experiences on match.com, but not the creepy evil type. But I have two friends who dated guys from church and dance classes – the guys ended up being serious stalkers.
I dunno - I'd rather meet someone face to face cuz that's how they're gonna haveta deal with me, problems, triumphs. Some of us still shop in person, go to real librarys (Flatlander, was that you?), lead Girl Scout and Boy Scout troops, bowl in leagues, play basketball, etcetera.
Yes true, but the (terrible) awkwardness of the first meeting/date is gone after a few weeks or a month of chatting, e-mailing and etc. There's a more of a relaxed feeling because you end up sharing more than usual in a first-time-face-to-face encounter, you trade pictures (by whatever rating...pg-13 to xxx ) ; for some reason computers/internet gives the false illusion of protection and we tell things about ourselves that we would never say in person. Probably because we cannot "see" the inital facial expression/reaction. People rely upon body language and facial clues more than they realize and because they can see the "eww gross" or "heeyy, I like where this is going..." they'll change their wording in mid-sentence or keep going.
But anyway, I've met gals in person after chatting/e-mailing on-line and it is a lot easier, more relaxed and the only trouble was figuring out where to go and eat. :idunno: :uhyeah:
) ; for some reason computers/internet gives the false illusion of protection and we tell things about ourselves that we would never say in person. Probably because we cannot "see" the inital facial expression/reaction. People rely upon body language and facial clues more than they realize and because they can see the "eww gross" or "heeyy, I like where this is going..." they'll change their wording in mid-sentence or keep going. But anyway, I've met gals in person after chatting/e-mailing on-line and it is a lot easier, more relaxed and the only trouble was figuring out where to go and eat. :idunno: :uhyeah:
before i was married i was im'd by a girl in the same city. how she got my id i will never know. anyway we spoke on the phone for about a week, and emailed. we decided to meet. to my suprise she was a little too much woman for me. 
i guess we should have exchanged pics first.
peace
i guess we should have exchanged pics first.peace
I still think Kaith should set up his very own "geek" dating site. he could make a fortune, and keep expanding MT!
shesulsa said:
Seriously...
Geeky, nerdy chicks are the hottest kind!
