I hope for the best, but for some odd reason I seem to draw in the people with something to prove. I can be doing nothing more than walking down the street and it seems like I have a sign over my head saying, "Hey, come mess with me."
You and me both. Ever since I was old enough to leave the yard without mommy holding my hand, I've been a target and victim of assaults.
A few situations were avoidable with wiser choices on my part, but most were not. There was a brief time when I tried not fighting back. It didn't work out so well: they would beat on me for awhile and stop when they got winded.
Fighting back, before I trained martial arts, had mixed results.
When I first started martial arts (that decision made largely in part to having my jaw shattered and three teeth knocked out in an assault by three men, one armed with a tire tool), I studied bar fights for a couple of years.
There was a bar in town that if I showed up at about 11 p.m, chances are I would see a fight before closing time.
Granted, of all the places I've lived (and I lived in a lot of places -- mostly in California, then St. Louis and finally Southeast Missouri), the Missouri Bootheel seems to have the highest number of simple assaults.
Bootheel assaults are usually no weapons, no robbery motive or any other secondary motive, usually end up being multiple attackers. Alcohol is almost ALWAYS a factor.
I agree with searcher: it is usually males aged 18-25, maybe 18-30.
"Average Joes" aren't the most likely attackers, IMO. Attackers (or primary instigators) are usually an "accomplished street brawler" which isn't exactly a trained fighter, but IS more experienced than an "average Joe."
Victims, on the other hand, very often ARE "average Joes" must minding their own business.
Typical attacker skills range from "look tough but really can't fight" to "can and will put you in the hospital unless somebody intervenes."
Preparing for the worst is a good way to go, for the most part. But it's not worth traveling to the ends of the earth to seek out the most effective techniques known to mankind. Having experienced lots of assaults, I have an idea of what is effective and what isn't.
Since studying the martial arts (a very traditional, hard-core taekwondo and hapkido), I no longer worry about being assaulted.
Attackers have regretted picking me on every occassion since I started training. And as I no longer limp my way home humilated, brusied and injured, I'm pretty pleased with my choices.
This is all based on personal experience. Things may be very different where you are.