Hey now there Gou...
I'm one of those fruity-@ssed, tree-huggin', sandal-wearing, whale-watchin', crystal pendant wearing, aura watching, chi freaks.
Well, actually, I don't know the tree well enough yet to hug...we just shake limbs. :rofl:
Seriously - I think it depends on a-the art, and b-what -you- want to achieve.
If you're doing 1 of the 'fitness' types (cardio boxing, kickboxing, some tai-chi flavors, yoga, etc) you can probably lose the sparing part, no problem.
If you're doing it for a self defence aspects, you need the sparing. Even if its just the "move in, tap and back off" type, it helps you to at least look for openings, get used to throwing a shot, loosen up, build some confidence, and helps in balance.
My personal opinion? Most schools don't do enough sparring. Local Kenpo school hasn't had a real sparing set since June sometime. Oh, they've dont a few "clinics" the jab right, then shuffle left then throw a left into the big pad your partners holding bit....but no free form, etc. I like sparring...helps me seek out the practical uses for my training.
"Hmm...he's throwing a left straight punch, I'm off to his left, so I shouldshuffle to my right, slap with right, grab with left and guy shot." "Ohh, spinning back kick, shoulda been ready for that"
Ya know?
Course, if theres a reason the student doesn't want to spar, thats ok too....the gals at certain times, people obviously out of it (poor control, etc issues), people who just can't seem to understand that its training, not combat, etc.
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