Originally posted by grimfang
there is a big difference between groveling and showing respect and courtesy. If somebody has achieved the status of master (or grandmaster, or whatever...) and that person has chosen to take a few moments to share some knowledge with me, then the least i can do is try to make that person comfortable.
Why does the master rate this treatment? Do you treat everyone you meet this way? If not, why not? How does Mr. Master rate, and Joe Regular does not?
As long as you are treating Mr. Master no better nor any differently than Joe Regular, then offering a chair and a beverage is fine... But if Joe Regular gets to stand while you bow down before Mr. Master, then something is amiss...
Also, i feel it would be rather arrogant of me to interrogate this individual, or press him/her for specific information. This person would know what needs to be said, would know what information would be benificial to my current and future development.
Bull s**t. A martial arts "master" first of all would never allow someone to refer to him as such. Said "master" would never allow you to treat him/her in a manner that was better than the way other around were being treated. Nor would he/she believe that he/she was capable of determining your future destiny.
You watch too many kung fu movies, methinks.
If the person is a martial arts "master," then their advice and knowledge is restricted to their understanding of their martial techniques. They are not spiritual gurus, religious icons or some other form of enlightened being. They are people, just like you and me. Like the term
sensei implies, they are those who have "gone before," and so while they may know more about some things than we are, they are not the all powerful, all knowing, all seeing mystical beings that the movies have burned into our collective unconscious.
Mr. Master wouldn't necessarily know what to say to you, nor what divine information to impart to further your future progress. Then again, maybe he/she would. He/she might just tell you to keep practicing...
Although I have not spent much time around a grandmaster, I can tell you from experience that a seat and a drink are things that they do enjoy on occasion.
Which would be so unlike anybody else...
Gambarimasu.
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