skribs
Grandmaster
As many of you are aware, I've recently moved halfway across the country, and have since joined a BJJ/Muay Thai gym, and more recently a new TKD school as well.
So far, I love the BJJ school. I'm not nearly as enthusiastic about the TKD. The problem is, it's about the only KKW school in the area accepting black belts from outside the school. So if I want to get my 4th degree, I feel this is my only option.
There are three main things that make me feel like I'm wasting my time here.
At this point, I'm probably going to wait 3-5 years anyway before opening a school. But I have to wonder if I'd be better off throwing myself 100% into BJJ and Muay Thai. Right now I'm at about a 50/50 split. I feel like I'm wasting time in TKD, but not in BJJ/MT.
To be clear, I'm fine going through his timeline if it feels appropriate. I don't mind going through the levels as fast as I'm ready for them, and if that's 1 year or more for each level, that's perfectly understandable. What I don't want is to be ready for level 1 six months in, and have to wait another six months because I haven't been at his school for a year; and then be ready for level 2 a few months after that and have to wait nine months to be eligible...
I'm planning on leaving KKW either way. I'm not 100% onboard with everything they do. However, if given a choice, I'd rather leave as a 4th degree so there's no question whether or not I could handle getting my KKW 4th degree. But I think I would have a much better school if I spend the next 3-5 years focusing on MMA than splitting time between MMA and a TKD school where I don't feel like I'm allowed to learn anything useful.
So far, I love the BJJ school. I'm not nearly as enthusiastic about the TKD. The problem is, it's about the only KKW school in the area accepting black belts from outside the school. So if I want to get my 4th degree, I feel this is my only option.
There are three main things that make me feel like I'm wasting my time here.
- There is a lot of pomp and circumstance, by that I mean scripted events that often involve a call-and-response. There's a lot of different systems that are in place, such as different types of stripes and patches, levels of black belts, a separate white belt system for younger kids. I'm 2 months in and I feel like I've almost got a grasp on all of these processes.
- This is a school which has "levels" of each black belt degree. 1st degree has at least 7 levels (I'm not sure how many there are, and neither are the black belts). 2nd and 3rd only have 2. But I need to start 3rd degree over and go through these levels. He might accelerate them for me (because I've been active as a 4th degree for 4 years and already went through all of the intermediate tests at my previous school), or he might not. If he doesn't, I'll need to wait at least 3 years before being able to test.
- This school is incredibly low on contact. One-step sparring is 100% compliant. They barely hold kicking shields. In sparring, he says "light contact" isn't allowed, we have to do "tap sparring" instead. We don't do headshots at any level, not even light contact. When we do conditioning in class, we'll do two sets of 3 jumping jacks, 2 pushups, and 1 situp. The kicker for me was when we were doing one-step drills and he said, "Don't actually block the arm because you might hurt them."
At this point, I'm probably going to wait 3-5 years anyway before opening a school. But I have to wonder if I'd be better off throwing myself 100% into BJJ and Muay Thai. Right now I'm at about a 50/50 split. I feel like I'm wasting time in TKD, but not in BJJ/MT.
To be clear, I'm fine going through his timeline if it feels appropriate. I don't mind going through the levels as fast as I'm ready for them, and if that's 1 year or more for each level, that's perfectly understandable. What I don't want is to be ready for level 1 six months in, and have to wait another six months because I haven't been at his school for a year; and then be ready for level 2 a few months after that and have to wait nine months to be eligible...
I'm planning on leaving KKW either way. I'm not 100% onboard with everything they do. However, if given a choice, I'd rather leave as a 4th degree so there's no question whether or not I could handle getting my KKW 4th degree. But I think I would have a much better school if I spend the next 3-5 years focusing on MMA than splitting time between MMA and a TKD school where I don't feel like I'm allowed to learn anything useful.