In attempting to alleviate pain, we sometimes have to bring that pain to the fore. Here I think as women we feel we are having to confront what we want to put away. I think that is always going to be an obstacle to overcome. And in your course I am thinking it is like unconvering a wound that we want to help heal, though the very uncovering process can be too painful to bear. I think the very best thing you have done is to admit honestly to yourself that it felt awkward. And but not only to yourself, to your students. Then there is less pressure on you to "perform" and everyone can be open. Be honest with everyone. Your determination to HELP will stand out. It is ok to make mistakes. Mistakes are learning vehicles. We are human and we are all flawed and this will never be a mathematical science. Have you lost students? I hope not. Please let them know how much you want to help. Please let them know that you are not going away. Show that by organising more courses. These women, there is often nobody to trust. You do not even know that Police can call by or counsellors will be available on weekends when something happens. Please Georgia, continue to be the presence and the force for these women.
I want to chip in with Adrasteia, I think you are being courageous to post this up here and but it is important -and will continue to be- perhaps in a bigger context than you appreciate and so please continue on!! I will say again that our own experiences are sometimes the most pertinent and sometimes we are chosen for certain tasks without perhaps knowing the whole of it.
I would say perhaps there is a need to call this a workshop rather than a course. Then you can have a framework and but the participant students can flesh out the substance ad hoc as you all throw in your opinions and perhaps it will help the women involved open up. It is a problem I know in revealing weakness. We want to appear invincible and but too often we are self-deluding. I guess that kind of difficult exposing of one's weakness sometimes comes as leadership from the front.
I think I do not know enough to give proper expertise. I only know that I wish there had been a woman with your expertise and understanding where I was some time back. Please post some more, Janna xo
I want to chip in with Adrasteia, I think you are being courageous to post this up here and but it is important -and will continue to be- perhaps in a bigger context than you appreciate and so please continue on!! I will say again that our own experiences are sometimes the most pertinent and sometimes we are chosen for certain tasks without perhaps knowing the whole of it.
I would say perhaps there is a need to call this a workshop rather than a course. Then you can have a framework and but the participant students can flesh out the substance ad hoc as you all throw in your opinions and perhaps it will help the women involved open up. It is a problem I know in revealing weakness. We want to appear invincible and but too often we are self-deluding. I guess that kind of difficult exposing of one's weakness sometimes comes as leadership from the front.
I think I do not know enough to give proper expertise. I only know that I wish there had been a woman with your expertise and understanding where I was some time back. Please post some more, Janna xo