Or when I get ignored when I walk into a roti hut, or the assumption made about me because of my skin colour when I go to certain parties. I probably have the most racially diverse family on this thread. I am lily white, my wife is half-Arabic, and our adopted kids are African-American. I see racism from all sides, black women asking if my daughter is a "half breed", my kids being given a hard time in malls, me not being fully accepted at Jamaican parties cuz I dont fit in(but my wife is OK, no double standard there). People that dont know my family say all kinds of things to me that are racist, unfortunately that is the way lots of folks are.