What Style is Best For Real Self Defense?

[TSDTexan]

no the fault was mine and I wasn't having a go

I don't know if the school still teaches that. He was a deshi of O'sensei

No, I never felt like you were having a go at me, and I truely do appreciate correction, at least, from people who are not smarmy arrogant blowhards.

And you my friend are none of the that.