flatlander said:
So my follow up question is this. At this point then, would it be inappropriate for me to find other people, other than my instructor to 'play' with? I want to gain the live experience, but don't think that the 'formal' hour per week is progressing me as fast as my lack of patience allows me to be comfortable with. I've got plenty of initiative, just not enough money to facilitate that right now. What do you think? Would I maybe better off dealing with someone skilled, as opposed to just monkeying around with my buds in the back yard?
One of the best things you get from your instructor is insight and their experience so by all means stick with that and some. When you get extra money, take private lessons too!
You are talking to a person who at one time went to class and trained Arnis and Sil-Lum Kung-fu five days a week, attended seminars, took alot of private classes, practiced something almost everyday, initiated lunch training sessions with a couple of fellow students, amassed a great collection of video and book references and studied something a least once a day, touched hands with as many people that I could, freely yet with discretion shared my knowledge with with friends, traveled to seminars up and down the east coast and Europe.
Bear in mind also that I had an two-hour round commute in order to be able to train the arts that I wanted to learn as well. And worked killer hours as well. Because of my dedication, I was able to earn black-belts in both Sil-Lum Kung-Fu and Modern Arnis with 3 and 1/2 years as well as learn the Yang Short Form, and gain some experience in Emperor's Long Fist, Chi-Gung, Chin Na, and some Tibetan Monk/Indonesian Silat seminars to name a few.
I took advantage as much as I could to learn and I appreciate those times now that I am a bum

. Unfortunately, I am only able to teach twice a week and get up with some students and friends to train once or twice a month. And hopefully, once my downtime is over, I can get out more and play. but my daughter and work come first right now.
So, my suggestion is do whatever it takes to pursue your passion not only within reason but with reason as well.
Best regards,
Harold Evans
Proud member and student of:
Tuhon Ray Dionaldo's Filipino Combat Systems
GrandMaster Rick Ward's International Kung-Fu Arnis Academy under Sifu/Guro David Ng of Raleigh, NC
GM Remy A. Presas' Modern Arnis (IMAF, Inc) under Guro David Ng.
Hock Hochheim's Scientific Fighting Congress' Pacific Archipelago and Filipino Combatives under Guro Lyndon Johnson.