“Muscle memory” is in the cerebellum, that ball-like part on the back and bottom of the brain. New stuff you learn occurs somewhere in the cerebrum. Repeat it often enough and it gets moved to the cerebellum. This is why you have to consciously think about some stuff and can do other things subconsciously. Ever think about walking while you walk? You just go. That’s the cerebellum. Consciously think about it, and you’re using the cerebrum. And you’ll probably trip yourself up a bit if you consciously think about walking because the two parts of your brain are going against each other.
If I asked you which arm swings forward as your right leg steps forward, you most likely have to think about it, then you’ll probably end up walking several steps and second guess your answer. Walking will feel awkward.
I do this with my 9th grade biology students. It’s hilarious watching them contemplating and thinking about how they actually walk while they’re walking. My anatomy & physiology professor did it to us, and that’s where I got it from. We’d be walking around the room and several people could be heard saying “wait, do I actually walk like this, or do I walk like this?” Walking is so highly complex that if we consciously think about what everything’s doing, we’d fall on our faces quite often.
That muscle memory of throwing a punch or kick is basically the same thing. How far back does your punching hand go? Where does it go (above your shoulder, your hip, etc.)?When does it turn over? How much does it turn over? How far out is your elbow? Which knuckles are landing first? How does it redirect itself and hit a target? How does it track that target and still hit it when it moved a bit while the punch was on its way? What is the rest of your body doing while all of this is going on? Think about all of that stuff consciously, and you’re f’ed.
While you’re learning all the fine details of a punch, you’re re-wiring and making more neural pathways.