There is NO dishonor in NOT having served in a combat zone, or in having served in a rear echelon capacity during time of war...or for that matter...even in time of peace. As Americans we owe our deepest gratitude and respect to ALL who serve, regardless of when or where, or what their job may be. It is appropriate to honor every veteran for his or her service, whether their uniform is devoid of medals or emblazoned with them.
In the same regard, every veteran has a responsibility to honor all who have gone before, and those who will follow after. We do this by being proud of our service, content in our accomplishments, and honest in the way we present ourselves. The fakes, phonies, and the wannabes tend to fall into four categories:
- MEDAL OF HONOR IMPOSTORS - This is the very WORST kind of phony. At least once a month we are contacted through this website regarding men who are falsely presenting themselves as recipients of our Nation's highest military award.
- PRISONER OF WAR IMPOSTORS - Prisoners of War should be among our most honored citizens--men and women who have sacrificed their own freedom in the process of defending freedom for others. Those who falsely present themselves as former POWs have stooped to the lowest levels imaginable.
- WANNABE HEROES - There is no shame in being a clerk, a driver, or holding some other menial non-combat position in time of war. Often called REMFs, those who served in relatively safe areas were NOT always safe. More than one clerk's name is on The Wall in Washington, D.C. Some who served in these roles, however, find themselves caught up in the all-too-common game of Veteran one-up-manship. To compete, or for whatever other reason, they award themselves medals never earned.
- WANNABE VETERANS - Who would have believed in the 1970s that one day, it would be in vogue to be a Vietnam Veteran. Sadly, today, there are literally thousands of men (and women) who claim to be Vietnam Veterans who NEVER EVEN SERVED in the military.
The phonies who fit into these categories are not limited to Vietnam Veterans, it is a problem across the generations. Recently we received word of a WWII veteran, a kindly man in his 80s, who was falsely presenting himself as a Medal of Honor recipient on the Cruise Lines.