Because that's how you're going about it. Try looking for someone you simply would enjoy spending time with, whether they were male or female.
And being someone that people would want to spend time with.
Stop treating it as some game or some hunt, and simply do things that interest you with other people. By definition, they'll be interested in the same thing... and you just might be amazed at what happens if you're simply yourself.
Without giving someone you don't hardly know nearly a thousand bucks.
Once again, I'll note that there is EXACTLY one thing in common with all of the complaints you're making. When you change that... you'll probably find the rest changes too.
For what it's worth... My wife and I actually met online. Neither of us were looking for romance that way; we simply were participating in message boards that interested us. One thing led to another, we met in real life, and a few years later got married.
How do I get past some of the rudeness that I have seen some women display? I'm just curious because even with what I know about the whole dating, mating, and relating scene I still have not been able to really create that attraction and to really get women interested in me or at least not the one's that I really would like to be going out with.
The best thing that I have learned is to basically act like you are not really interested at all while at the same time doing everything that you can to make yourself more interesting.
When time and money permit I am constantly trying to improve my overall game so that I can catch the interest of that one special woman and keep her interest in me. It's not easy to do because as I have learned if you act too much like her friend then that is where you will stay as women tend to compartmentalize men in their minds and if you are not appearing to her that you are the alpha male, then she will basically only want to be friends with you and that is at best.
I've been thinking about it for a long time because of a failed relationship that I once had with a woman that I knew in high school. When I met her I was like most guys at the time thinking about things like how much fun I can have by doing things like hanging out with friends, partying, and of course the standard male thought of having as much sex with as many women as I could.
I was not thinking about things like love, relationships or anything else like that until I met this girl. After I met her my line of thinking completely changed and ever since then I have been thinking that I made a lot of mistakes with her simply because I was not paying attention to the details and to the signals that she gave me.
I've been thinking about it because while I would like to be able to see her again and to maybe even find out as to what the heck I did wrong with the relationship I don't think that will ever happen and that the best thing that I can do is to just simply learn from not only that relationship, but from every interaction that I have ever had with a woman.
I think that I've come to understand some of my mistakes, but there are still a lot that I know that I have made with women that I still have not really learned from and I am hoping to change that so that I am not making as many of the same mistakes with women in the future that I did in the past.
I know that I blew one potential relationship with a girl because I got too excited and carried away with the whole idea of traveling the world meeting women and doing the import/export business. As a result I broke rapport with her and she ended the dialoge that I had with her.