And if all your training is around the next progression "in" (more control, etc.), then you haven't trained any exits - following the training (which is what we hope will happen) actually makes it harder to run away. Some portion of training should actually include making that space, recognizing it, and using it.
You marked my posts x with out any explanation, running away is only a valid option if you. An run faster that who ever it is who is chasing you other wise your just exposing you unprotected back to them ,also taking into account, that you can't leave your wife, buddy, or un cooperative dog behin any attempt fi r me to run would be fooled by my dog insisting on going the other way or a big a long sniff
Actually, I marked two of your posts that way. On one, I disagreed with the premise that how much someone annoys you somehow correlates to how much they should get hurt. In the other, I disagreed with the premise that everyone's first instinct is flight. Lots of untrained people (meaning they haven't had to work their way out of "flight" reaciton) jump first to "fight".
That's the reaction of those without self-control. If someone annoys me, I don't feel the need to hurt them. If I'm hurting someone, it's because I need to stop them from hurting me or someone else. It's the perceived threat, not the annoyance, that determines my response level.
That maybe you, but it isn't a lot of people and it certainly isn't me, it's take a self control To only damage them 5 timess and even more to only Put then in intensive care.
I don't know what bacy is, but I don't want to have mine stolen.
Tobacco, a serious misdemeanor that would have you beaten to a pulp. I know your point, but that not how most of the rest of humanity function, it's about retribution , so he has been punished commensurate with his actionsI don't know what bacy is, but I don't want to have mine stolen.
And the issue with punching isn't the annoyance - it's the threat. That's the point I was making.
I don't use bacy much (we'd spell it "baccy" here in the Southern US), but yeah, stealing mine is worth a caning.
It's part of the fight training at their gym.
If they know me and my address, that’s a shitty situation. Easy to retaliate in many ways.
They could come in number... or worse... The (sort of) statement needed to be done (2 guys stalking and intimidating a young girl in the metro), but then I spent more 15 min each way, using another route, every day for awhile...If they know me and my address, that’s a shitty situation. Easy to retaliate in many ways.
Otherwise, I agree it is a good idea. But after the statement, please avoid the same route for a while. I did.
