It happens to everyone. We get screwed in some way, and we just can't let it go, at least not for a while. I'm going through it right now, mulling a lawsuit to get what's mine, and it's turning me into someone I don't like. I spent hours today talking with local bureaucrats, a couple lawyers and even a private investigator. It's eating me up and ruined an otherwise beautiful day. I want to get this millstone off from around my neck but it just won't seem to go. I trained this evening and it helped a lot. I knew it would, so I made the executive decision that I would stop obsessing about it once I got home. Not very practical, but it seems to be helping. One of my classmates' mother is having a major surgery tomorrow, so we just took it out on each other. That helped too. Any other suggestions? I'm trying to be spiritual and forgiving about this, I really am. I know I should because I'm just hurting myself and yadda yadda. How do other people here let go of that sense of righteous indignation and anger? I could use some help here.