I'm rather concerned however that discussing it here could make things worse, I've noticed a few times when Googling something that a MT thread will pop up relevant or pertaining to that which I was looking up. It's still in the public domain, not unlike Facebook etc it can be read by anyone, I'm betting it won't be difficult for Blade's family to find here and read that they all have 'issues', that may not be a pleasant surprise.
I do realise that people post up their opinions, problems etc but I think sometimes that for problems of a very personal nature this may not be the best place to post them?