Kenpoguy123
Purple Belt
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So I've never seen this discussed but has anyone on here ever failed a belt test. If so what was your reaction to it how did or you over come it and come back or didnt you come back. Personally I've been fortunate enough not to fail one but I've also never worried about it. I always said if I pass awesome if not okay not the end of the world I just didnt get a new coloured strip of fabric.
My late instructor once said something to the class which always stuck with me "in some clubs if you don't get a belt they say oh you weren't successful on the day. That's rubbish you failed, you failed to get the belt. But that doesn't make you a failure if you fail then improve and train harder you're a winner, if you fail then never train again because of it then you are a failure"
I completely agree with that and it's not like failing means you can't ever train again. I think the main stigma to failing is you think your other class mates will judge you or say oh they're obviously rubbish they failed or they think people will act differently to them. In reality no one cares you fail a test you come back the next lesson you start training you move on and it soon becomes distant memory. No black belt goes oh I'm a third dan but I failed my orange belt they just say I'm a third dan.
I do believe people put belts on to high a pedestal. To me they're the least important part of training the only reason why they ever meant anything to me was so I could learn more techniques
My late instructor once said something to the class which always stuck with me "in some clubs if you don't get a belt they say oh you weren't successful on the day. That's rubbish you failed, you failed to get the belt. But that doesn't make you a failure if you fail then improve and train harder you're a winner, if you fail then never train again because of it then you are a failure"
I completely agree with that and it's not like failing means you can't ever train again. I think the main stigma to failing is you think your other class mates will judge you or say oh they're obviously rubbish they failed or they think people will act differently to them. In reality no one cares you fail a test you come back the next lesson you start training you move on and it soon becomes distant memory. No black belt goes oh I'm a third dan but I failed my orange belt they just say I'm a third dan.
I do believe people put belts on to high a pedestal. To me they're the least important part of training the only reason why they ever meant anything to me was so I could learn more techniques