Xue Sheng
All weight is underside
Wow. No more than 3 years? If I'm honest, I've never really stayed longer than that either, with the exception of the RN, and I didn't have any say in the matter then.
I'm just open to all suggestions within IT at the moment. Anyone in the Midlands area of the UK need a junior support/technical analyst? No? Ah well.
I'll wait and see how it goes, in fairness, the instability of this job has seen the stress levels rise exponentially, so without it, hopefully it'll be quite apparent, and life will slow down a little...
Depending on which direction I go if I go 180 miles I am still in the same state
Not knowing how things work in England what I am about to say may be silly. But here in the US I am facing a bit of uncertainty as well as to whether or not I will have a job (although I have been with the same employer greater than 10 years in IT) because the governor of the state I live in wants to eliminate my department in a cost saving measure and give it to a private corp. that will cost considerably more (basically a place to give his pals high paying jobs). Initially I was a bit stressed but now I have to be honest my attitude is I could use the vacation. However I do not have the uncertainty of re-employment many in the IT private sector have, I am likely looking at no more than 6 months, if that, before another office needs what I do and they re-hire me. But then it is still not all that certain the good ole gov will get his way just yet, even though he did but $0 in his budget for us.
Basically I am here at this point, Why worry, if I can do something about it then I should do it and stop worrying, if I can't do anything about it they why am I worrying about it at all, it is inevitable. Fight the good fight thats all I try and do anymore.
And one more thing, about 15 years ago I had a conversation with a doctor at a hospital I was working at and we were discussing stress. He said then that stress was one of the most underrated killers on the planet. I am glad you went to hear you are going to talk to someone.