I highly recommend this article:
The (Martial) Art of Good Men -
However, a word of warning - a light reading of this article without taking the time to try to understand the context in which it is placed (a blog devoted to exploring a decidedly non-PC standard of 'masculinity' in both men and women) could lead one to believe that this is a very gender-oriented and masculine-centric document; it is not that. So please take a moment to look over the blog and understand where the author (a woman) is coming from with the terms she uses. Not what some might at first assume the terms mean.
The (Martial) Art of Good Men -
However, a word of warning - a light reading of this article without taking the time to try to understand the context in which it is placed (a blog devoted to exploring a decidedly non-PC standard of 'masculinity' in both men and women) could lead one to believe that this is a very gender-oriented and masculine-centric document; it is not that. So please take a moment to look over the blog and understand where the author (a woman) is coming from with the terms she uses. Not what some might at first assume the terms mean.