Greetings.
We trained really tough chinese kickboxing (san da) and some grappling, while we learned Wing Chun. The Wing Chun was for "closed door" advanced students.
We sparred almost every day. We did some forms from other Wu Shu systems, (Snake style, Shaolin). And I trained filipino stick/knife and American Kenpo.
This was all I did most of the week after classes for years.
Where I live, there is a lot of street violence. I noticed that it just didn't translate completely to the street. My Si Fu told me self defense first. And I started listening.
I've had a series of "Great Awakenings". Each one has led me to a road that makes HUGE jumps in my skills... I mean, that I start doing things that were almost impossible or really hard before... they become trivial... no effort at all.
Personal Combat and Self Defense is very intricate... and the more you train in it the more you can notice that you can develop the skills to really control an attacker and it is your decision to how much damage to inflict, while completely controlling the person.
You don't have to go gouging eyes, ripping throats, yanking peaches or coconuts... those are things you don't need martial arts to do.
I was told real Mastery of a Martial Skill comes from controlling the attacker and doing as much damage as you want... many times much less than lethal or maiming...
because now, even if it is self defense, it will land you in jail or with $50,000 in legal fees.
I noticed that in the Personal Combat sphere, the sparring is harder, the thinking much more intricate. You develop an "Iron Body", and most hits just don't hurt after a little while.
It is much more violent, even scary for many people, and to be done right it is not for everyone... because the truth of the matter is that it is tough. Yet it becomes, as everything, palatable that has an acquired taste...
Then you cannot get enough of it...
Also, if someone hits you with something that don't work, you'll know immediately. And if you're hit with something that does work and hurts...
you'll want them to do it again!
Great Happiness!
Hope that helps.
Sincerely,
Juan M. Mercado