Originally posted by arnisador
Or as Richard Dawkins said, Of course we're not slaves to our genes--we thwart them every time we use contraception.
MACaver, there are twin studies, brain anatomy studies, etc., etc., etc.--I think there's a lot of evidence for a biological component!
It seems to make sense that there are biological components to homosexuality. I think that some people are "biologically" gay, as others are not biologically gay, and are conditioned through their environment.
What I don't like is how our society is still afraid of the subject, and is still afraid to call it what it is.
Homosexuality IS an abnormality. I am sorry, but it is. Biologically speaking the "purpose" of sex, and our sexual desires, is procreation. We may have our own personal needs, desires, and value's that we place on sex, but the fact is that biologically speaking, it exists for procreation.
So, to be attracted to the same sex whether due to your genetic make-up or not, is an abnormality. Just like having 2 sex organs, or an extra limb would be an abnormality. Let's call it what it is.
The "straight world" still seems very afraid to call it what it is.
Conservatives, particularly religious conservatives, generally don't want to come close to truly understanding the issue. So they wrongly (in my opinion) call sexual preference a "choice." They don't want to know about it because they see this abnormality as being "wrong." They often don't want to admit that it could be biological as well as environmental in nature because they would rather believe that homosexuals are making "a choice" to have a sexual preference, and that they choose wrongly. I believe that lifestyle is always a choice, but sexual preference is often not a choice.
"liberals" are no better. People more on this side of the fence work really hard to understand what homosexuality is all about, which is a good thing. The bad thing with people on this side of the fence is that they don't want to recognize it as an abnormality. They are not just tolerant, they are overly-sympothetic. They want to believe that it is just as "normal" to have homosexual relations as it is to have hetrosexual relations. This is simply not true.
So..."liberals" are afraid to call it an abnormality, and "conservatives" are afraid to recognize that it might not be a choice in many circumstances. Hmmm...what to do?
We'd do well to recognize a few things:
1. Sexual preference is not always a choice
2. Lifestyle is always a choice
3. Homosexuality is an abnormality
Then, I feel, the "straight world" can start being a little more tolerant and understanding, rather then overly sympothetic or intolerant. If a person was born without legs, for instance, would we descriminate that person for "choosing" to be without legs? Would we judge that person for the lifestyle they have to lead as a result of not having legs? Would we pretend that not having legs is "normal," and not open doors for them when they needed it, or continue to talk about "running" and shoe shopping when they cannot truly relate? Would we tell them how we feel their pain of not having legs, when it is clear that we still have both of ours? Would we chop off our own legs, so that they would feel more comfortable around us? Would we uncomfortably shy away from the subject, and pretend like the person has legs, when it is clear that they do not?
How about we do none of the above. How about we recognize that not having legs makes them different (because it isn't 'normal'), but that being different is O.K.? How about we recognize that they still have the power to choose how to live their life, even though they are different? How about we choose to recognize their differences, yet we choose not to judge them for these differences, or how they choose to live thier lives based off of these differences?
That might be a good start. Since this is the "study" perhaps my soapbox will give us all something to think over. :soapbox: :asian: