So I got matched with a woman on Eharmony. Went out on a date. Had a good and pleasant date. She is very attractive, accomplished career wise and I enjoyed her company. Sent her a message after words saying
"Hope you made it home ok. Had a great time. Your a Intelligent and beautiful woman. Tough combination to find! Lol. Look forward to getting to know you better. Enjoy your Sunday Amy"
She responded
Hi , I’ve had a busy week at work, as usual. I enjoyed your company on Sunday but to be honest I didn’t feel any chemistry. Sorry, Amy
I responded
"Fair enough. Enjoyed your company as well and I wish you all the best Amy"
She responded
"If you have room for more friends in your life, I’m definitely up for hanging out."
Anyway we have gotten together twice since then. First time at a country bar with a band. Had good conversation and danced a couple times. Friendly time enjoyed her company and conversation but no kissing or anything physical.
Second time I invited her to a travel and adventure Fair. So for those who are not familiar with this type of fair it would be described as "Discover World Class Destinations, Learn from the Best Local Travel Experts, meet Your Favorite Celebrity Travel personalities, Explore Cultural Entertainment from Around the World and Plan Your Next Vacation in One Day, Under One Roof"
Once again we were friendly and had good conversation. So I guess my question is I really like her as more then a friend and would like to move this beyond some kind of friend zone situation she has put me in. I know its not a gold digger thing she is very successful career wise and has money and does not ask me to pay for everything. So anyone been in similar situation with a woman and what is the best way to get out of the friendzone and into a romantic interest so to speak? Advice from a guy or from the woman perspective would be appreciated. Thanks.
"Hope you made it home ok. Had a great time. Your a Intelligent and beautiful woman. Tough combination to find! Lol. Look forward to getting to know you better. Enjoy your Sunday Amy"
She responded
Hi , I’ve had a busy week at work, as usual. I enjoyed your company on Sunday but to be honest I didn’t feel any chemistry. Sorry, Amy
I responded
"Fair enough. Enjoyed your company as well and I wish you all the best Amy"
She responded
"If you have room for more friends in your life, I’m definitely up for hanging out."
Anyway we have gotten together twice since then. First time at a country bar with a band. Had good conversation and danced a couple times. Friendly time enjoyed her company and conversation but no kissing or anything physical.
Second time I invited her to a travel and adventure Fair. So for those who are not familiar with this type of fair it would be described as "Discover World Class Destinations, Learn from the Best Local Travel Experts, meet Your Favorite Celebrity Travel personalities, Explore Cultural Entertainment from Around the World and Plan Your Next Vacation in One Day, Under One Roof"
Once again we were friendly and had good conversation. So I guess my question is I really like her as more then a friend and would like to move this beyond some kind of friend zone situation she has put me in. I know its not a gold digger thing she is very successful career wise and has money and does not ask me to pay for everything. So anyone been in similar situation with a woman and what is the best way to get out of the friendzone and into a romantic interest so to speak? Advice from a guy or from the woman perspective would be appreciated. Thanks.
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