Discussion in 'Korean Martial Arts - General' started by Choistic, Nov 3, 2018.
I have thought about it. Is a UFC gym the only way to learn it?
There's only one person who needs to be "strict and effective" and that is you. Don't think your forms are up to your standards? Fine. Don't test. Practice more.
The idea that this needs to be enforced by anyone other than you is just plain silly.
No. The testing standards are theirs. If you don't think you're ready to test by YOUR standards, then don't test.
Why? You are responsible for your own standard. Why do you need external affirmation?
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There's been some great responses so far. Can understand how hard it may be... I've had to leave my old dojo (not for the same reason, but due to feeling I need to move on from this style), and to be honest it was heartbreaking... Alot more emotional than I thought it'd be! But I knew in my heart it was the right decision. It was like leaving close family. But as hard as it was, I had to do it.
So you'll definitely have alot of emotional stuff to process if you decide to move on... it'll be a matter of allowing yourself to feel whatever it is you're feeling. Very deep stuff may surface, but remind yourself of just how far you've come, how much strength you've realised within yourself, and accepting any grief that comes up and allow yourself to feel and process that. Some people may see that a dojang or style change is no big deal, but when you spend that many hours in a place, and you've grown, evolved, and learned so much about yourself here (now being such a different person to when you started), built deep connection and friendship and shared many tough, enduring experiences with these people, it's not easy!
But like it was said earlier you can try another dojang in the same style if it's available. Otherwise a change of scenery may be for the best
I would argue most of the loyalty you owe is to the person who helped you (the master who has left) and to the training you benefited from (which doesn't seem to exist at that dojang now). If that dojang doesn't meet your needs now, you can move on without disrespecting or being disloyal in any way. Nearly everyone here has moved on at least once from a dojo/dojang/gym they felt loyal to, for any number of reasons. Many of us still have strong ties to those places and the people still there, though we've moved on.
You don't need a UFC-branded gym. There are plenty of good places that teach MMA-related material. It's unlikely any will be as traditional as you are used to - and you seem to enjoy that level tradition and formality - so keep that in mind. But one thing you should be able to count on at a gym that prepares MMA fighters (even if you don't compete): they will call you on your crap. And that's really what you seem to have liked about the testing you went through - you had to do it really well, or they'd point out the errors for you. MMA folks will have a different way about that (most don't do ranks, so no formal testing), but they'll do it, nonetheless.
Some folks benefit (both skill-wise and personally) from the added external structure. For some folks, it can be somewhat therapeutic.
That is an interesting point. Though we tend to idealize the values of the old school, I would wager this tension between maintaining high standards and teaching Martial Arts for profit likely predates TKD itself. Think about it. It is sort of arbitrary that we have a belt system were promotion goes from 10th gup, or beginner up to 1st Dan and beyond. It stands to reason that those ranks will mean different things to different people.
I just have a few questions about how things used to be. Some of these things make sense. Others, maybe not so much, at least if you are hoping to run a commercially viable TKD school.
1. The possibility of failing belt tests. - I am right with you on this. But I don't think failure should be common or expected, but for sure, if you mess up a form, or fail to break a board, or mess up on curicullum, maybe you should fail. My view is, if more than 10% of those testing are failing, something is wrong. Students should be prepared to test, and if they are not, they should not be testing.
2. Strict grading on forms - Yes, for sure. Some Martial Arts don't do forms, but if you do forms, they should be done correctly. I, too, hate when I see egregious mistakes made in forms. That said, there is sloppy, and there is bad enough to fail. Hopefully, you weed out the really bad mistakes in class.
3. Sparring - Proficiency makes sense, but really? If your testers spar against each other, you are saying that half the testing group has to fail every time, and that makes no sense. What if you run into strong fighters over 2 or more testing cycles?
4. Board breaking. With you there, if board breaking is something you do at tests.. If you do board breaking, you should be able to break the board to pass. My school does board breaking as part of the test, so that is fine. That said, I guess I am agnostic on this point. I wouldn't care if my school dropped the board breaking and replaced it with something else. But it isn't a big deal either, since I have no problem generating the power to break a 1" board.
5. An ability to speak Korean. Really? Unless you plan to live in Korea or work with Korean speakers, this strikes me as odd. Not that there is anything wrong with learning a foreign language, but seriously, that is appealing to maybe 1 in 10,000 people who are not Korean speakers to walk into a TKD dojang.
MMA gyms teach MMA, there's lots of them. Some gyms have been teaching MMA for a very long time. 'UFC' gyms are a relatively new thing.
Pretty sure they won't emphasize speaking Korean at MMA gyms.
As a student, you can't change the school you attend. It's not your place to make that change. You can talk to the instructors or school owner and let them know that you have some concerns with their new methods and are thinking about leaving because of them. But it's up to them whether or not to make those changes.
XFC Narre Warren - Mixed Martial Arts (MMA), Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ), Muay Thai / Kickboxing, Boxing
You would need a decent grappling instructor. But there are a few TKDers moving in to MMA.
As soon as your training is results based. (Poor martial arts resulting in getting bashed and embarrassed in front of your friends and family)
Your training motivation improves.
It takes a village.
Or is it strictness discipline and a common goal?
I mean I am not up at 6am this morning to do rounds because I like missing sleep ins.
Yeah, I think that's another way to express it. I think that common goal is part of what builds the sense of community I've seen in MMA gyms I've visited. I think the common goal is better-defined (and, perhaps, more common?) on average in MMA gyms.
UFC Gym is a chain gym here in the US. It used to be called LA Boxing. I haven’t been in one since the change/buyout/whatever happened, and the one near me closed. It used to be big on group fitness like cardio kickboxing. There are a lot of hanging Muay Thai heavy bags, trainers do individual/private lessons with a good amount of pad work, stuff like that. They had a boxing ring and would have some matches.
I went into my local one before I joined my current dojo. A trainer took me through a private workout hitting focus mitts and the heavy bag. He had competed in Muay Thai at some level. Seemed like a nice and genuine guy. The price was a bit higher than even the commercial dojos though. Multi-year contracts, down payments, etc. I could see someone really getting a lot out of it and enjoying it, but it wasn’t my cup of tea. Especially for the price. I’d have joined as a supplement to my training if the price was right though. A perfect world would’ve been my dojo as a separate room inside their facility, giving access to both for an affordable price.
I’m pretty sure they closed here due to price. There are several former pro boxers in the area doing essentially the same thing for around half (or less) than what they were charging.
One of the 5 tenets of Taekwondo is Self Discipline. Not discipline imposed from without.
As it should be.
But perhaps what helped you was martial Arts itself. Many of us here have walked in your shoes. If you believe that this Martial thing might be a long time pursuit, you should think about what a vast world it is out there. A lot of it right at your very fingertips.
What you might want to do is take a couple of weeks off and visit every place in easy driving distance and spend a couple of nights watching in each and every dojo. Maybe you'll realize you are already in the best place for you, maybe you'll be intrigued by something, you'll definitely see things you haven't seen before, which is always a good thing. What ever the case, it's good experience. And, brother, it's fun.
Just food for thought.
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