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My father tells me that I am a good-hearted person, but it is my temper that ruins me. Can anyone offer any suggestions?
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Oh yeah! I didn't think anyone else would have heard of those.clfsean said:Practice the following in this order...
Hok Yi --> Learn Kindess
Hok Yun --> Learn Fellowship
Hok Gung fu --> Learn Gung Fu
It will be a start.
1) Do you think your temper is a problem? Are you "ruined", or does your temper cause you to explode?Southern Crane said:My father tells me that I am a good-hearted person, but it is my temper that ruins me. Can anyone offer any suggestions?
Those aren't exercises... that's life. :whip:Southern Crane said:Where can I find information on these exercises?
We share common roots... :ultracool7starmantis said:Oh yeah! I didn't think anyone else would have heard of those.
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Well, I have a hard time believing that a single personality trait would "ruin" someone - or did he say "runs" you? As to what you replied to Ceicei - I would look at your wu shu practice as a practice in learning to be calm, to do something just for the sake of doing it, even if there doesn't seem to be a directly and immediately relevant point.Southern Crane said:Thank you all. It's good to know I am on the right path to mastering my good-heart, bad temper balance. Thank you ClfSean, I will try some hospital volunteer work to carlm my soul. Ceicei, the wu shu is going ok, but I have to tell you I am finding the moves to be a bit pointless and they are fustrating to learn, which causes me to become aggrivated! Feisty Mouse, your comments were very interesting - i'm not sure if I am "ruined" by my temer. Even though my parents believe otherwise, I strongly believe my temperament can be very useful if channeled in the right direction. Im not sure how to do this though. ANY suggestions? btw what is testosterone poisoning, and what are the dangers of this? MACaver, are u saying I need room to grow? how do I do this and MOST IMPORTANTLY how do I channel the temper and good heart i posses, in the right direction? any advice welcome?
(quote: My dad says "I am a good-hearted person, but my temper ruins me.")
The room to grow is within you. Not the space in which you live. No matter where you go there you are. And there your problems will still be. No escape from ourselves. I've learned this the hard-way.Gavin Daniel said:Thank you all. MACaver, are u saying I need room to grow? how do I do this and MOST IMPORTANTLY how do I channel the temper and good heart i posses, in the right direction? any advice welcome?
(quote: My dad says "I am a good-hearted person, but my temper ruins me.")