I always wanted to start a martial art, so after I got married and came back from my honeymoon, I went to 18 different schools in my area to find a school to go to. I didn't understand the difference between most martial arts at that time, and I was (at the time) 36 years old, so I didn't want to get into anything too crazy. I found a great traditional Tae Kwon Do school and I enjoyed the people there, but alas, a week later, I realized that all of the kicking and jumping around wasn't for me. Don't get me wrong, the kicks in TKD are beautiful and spectacular in their own rights, but it wasn't for me. I also noticed that they had 1 dans teaching all of the time and they had a serious attitude whenever they had to teach the "new guy" (me). It made me feel some sort of way.
I found another school very close and I just liked how it was run. The instructors had full control of the floor, there were two masters and complete discipline. Now, two years into training, I am so happy that I chose Tang Soo do because of the beauty of the art! I love the forms and the self defense, I love getting on the floor whenever I can! I still visit other schools and other styles just to see what they are about and I never walk out thinking that I made the wrong decision.
But, I got into it because I needed mental clarity and I needed to build some balance in my life. Tang Soo Do has already done that in just two years of training, and I haven't even gotten to the good stuff yet. I joined because I wanted to be part of something bigger than just a normal everyday life. The people I meet at the tournaments.....the knowledge I gain off of my instructors.....even now, at 38 years old, I learn something new nearly every class and, most of the time, it was not a new TSD technique.