Some thoughts on sparring

Danny T

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Things to Keep in Mind When Sparring:

1) Always have a goal
Sparring is about learning and making your skills better. Without a goal, your sparring session would not be productive. This is because you wouldn’t know what you specifically want to focus on and achieve.

If you’re a beginner and aren’t sure what areas to work on, speak with your your instructors/coaches for advice – and then use that advice to plan out what you want to achieve. Is it to keep your hands up at all times? To get specific techniques right? To work on specific combinations? To work on timing to enter or maybe to work on specific defenses? Think about it before and during the session.

When it’s over, talk to your sparring partners and instructors to find out what you did well, and learn about the areas you can improve on. You can then develop a game plan based on their feedback, and ultimately work on getting better.

2) Sparring is not about winning or losing
One of the most important things to remember when you’re sparring is that there are no winners or losers in sparring. So you don’t have to go all out and try to knock out or hurt your partner. The purpose of sparring is to deepen your martial arts practice and ultimately become a better fighter – not to deliver a knockout punch, or destroy your partner!

Leave your ego behind and don’t worry about how you look during sparring. Yes, this includes the times when you have to tap out or end up getting hit more than you’re hitting. In fact, those are the moments that actually help you to learn and grow the most.

3) Keep calm, relax and breathe
When you first start sparring, it can be pretty nerve wrecking and overwhelming because you just don’t know how to handle the situation. Unfortunately, this might cause you to tense up. However, when you don’t relax and breathe while sparring, you’ll slow down your reaction time and this would affect your performance.

Sparring in a tense state would also cause you to move clumsily, and this would definitely hinder your strikes and defense. Once you learn to relax while sparring, you’ll notice that your movements are much more controlled and fluid. The more you spar the more relaxed you will become.

4) Be creative, and try new combinations
When you start sparring, you should focus on getting all your fundamentals right before progressing to more advanced techniques. However, that doesn’t mean you should keep striking with the same combination. Instead, why not mix and match your basics to form new combinations?

Apart from keeping your partner guessing, mixing it up would help you to be able to execute various combinations and think on your feet. Hence, you’ll learn to adapt to all kinds of situations and be unpredictable while sparring.

5) Spar with different people; a lot of different people
While it might be scary to bump fists with people you’ve never sparred with before, it’s totally worth it. When you change sparring partners, you’re actually enabling yourself to respond, adapt, and react to a variety of fighting styles and skills.

Also, you’ll learn much more from people who are at a higher level – so don’t be afraid to pair up with them. In fact, you should seize the opportunity and step out of your comfort zone. After all, facing your fears and overcoming them will help you get stronger.

6) Have fun!
I believe this is the most important thing to keep in mind when you’re sparring. Sparring should be a fun way for you to learn how to use the techniques you learned in class and elevate your game.

Always respect your sparring partner, they are not just a human punching bag – you’re all there for the same reason: to learn, grow, and become a better martial artist. So train hard, and make every sparring session count but remember to make it a fun and exciting learning session.
 

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Very nice thoughts. I agree. We are always told that our in-dojo sparring should be a 'teaching/learning' experience. We are trying to learn but we are also trying to help our partners learn by giving them opportunities to use their techniques as well. That doesn't mean not to defend; it means give and take, back and forth, partners helping each other. My favorite sparring partner can destroy me at will; he doesn't. He sometimes weathers my awkward and clumsy attempts to hit him, and both encourages and assists me to become a better martial artist.
 

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Things to Keep in Mind When Sparring:

1) Always have a goal
Sparring is about learning and making your skills better. Without a goal, your sparring session would not be productive. This is because you wouldn’t know what you specifically want to focus on and achieve.

If you’re a beginner and aren’t sure what areas to work on, speak with your your instructors/coaches for advice – and then use that advice to plan out what you want to achieve. Is it to keep your hands up at all times? To get specific techniques right? To work on specific combinations? To work on timing to enter or maybe to work on specific defenses? Think about it before and during the session.

When it’s over, talk to your sparring partners and instructors to find out what you did well, and learn about the areas you can improve on. You can then develop a game plan based on their feedback, and ultimately work on getting better.

2) Sparring is not about winning or losing
One of the most important things to remember when you’re sparring is that there are no winners or losers in sparring. So you don’t have to go all out and try to knock out or hurt your partner. The purpose of sparring is to deepen your martial arts practice and ultimately become a better fighter – not to deliver a knockout punch, or destroy your partner!

Leave your ego behind and don’t worry about how you look during sparring. Yes, this includes the times when you have to tap out or end up getting hit more than you’re hitting. In fact, those are the moments that actually help you to learn and grow the most.

3) Keep calm, relax and breathe
When you first start sparring, it can be pretty nerve wrecking and overwhelming because you just don’t know how to handle the situation. Unfortunately, this might cause you to tense up. However, when you don’t relax and breathe while sparring, you’ll slow down your reaction time and this would affect your performance.

Sparring in a tense state would also cause you to move clumsily, and this would definitely hinder your strikes and defense. Once you learn to relax while sparring, you’ll notice that your movements are much more controlled and fluid. The more you spar the more relaxed you will become.

4) Be creative, and try new combinations
When you start sparring, you should focus on getting all your fundamentals right before progressing to more advanced techniques. However, that doesn’t mean you should keep striking with the same combination. Instead, why not mix and match your basics to form new combinations?

Apart from keeping your partner guessing, mixing it up would help you to be able to execute various combinations and think on your feet. Hence, you’ll learn to adapt to all kinds of situations and be unpredictable while sparring.

5) Spar with different people; a lot of different people
While it might be scary to bump fists with people you’ve never sparred with before, it’s totally worth it. When you change sparring partners, you’re actually enabling yourself to respond, adapt, and react to a variety of fighting styles and skills.

Also, you’ll learn much more from people who are at a higher level – so don’t be afraid to pair up with them. In fact, you should seize the opportunity and step out of your comfort zone. After all, facing your fears and overcoming them will help you get stronger.

6) Have fun!
I believe this is the most important thing to keep in mind when you’re sparring. Sparring should be a fun way for you to learn how to use the techniques you learned in class and elevate your game.

Always respect your sparring partner, they are not just a human punching bag – you’re all there for the same reason: to learn, grow, and become a better martial artist. So train hard, and make every sparring session count but remember to make it a fun and exciting learning session.
Anytime I've done sparring there's never been a winner or loser. No one says oh I won that. You do the sparring and move on. People who go out trying to /win/ a sparring match just have to much ego. Yes obviously you try your best but it's not like a pro fight where you get paid for winning
 

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Leave your ego behind and don’t worry about how you look during sparring. Yes, this includes the times when you have to tap out or end up getting hit more than you’re hitting. In fact, those are the moments that actually help you to learn and grow the most.

aka "invest in loss"
 

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Things to Keep in Mind When Sparring:

1) Always have a goal
Sparring is about learning and making your skills better. Without a goal, your sparring session would not be productive. This is because you wouldn’t know what you specifically want to focus on and achieve.

If you’re a beginner and aren’t sure what areas to work on, speak with your your instructors/coaches for advice – and then use that advice to plan out what you want to achieve. Is it to keep your hands up at all times? To get specific techniques right? To work on specific combinations? To work on timing to enter or maybe to work on specific defenses? Think about it before and during the session.

When it’s over, talk to your sparring partners and instructors to find out what you did well, and learn about the areas you can improve on. You can then develop a game plan based on their feedback, and ultimately work on getting better.

2) Sparring is not about winning or losing
One of the most important things to remember when you’re sparring is that there are no winners or losers in sparring. So you don’t have to go all out and try to knock out or hurt your partner. The purpose of sparring is to deepen your martial arts practice and ultimately become a better fighter – not to deliver a knockout punch, or destroy your partner!

Leave your ego behind and don’t worry about how you look during sparring. Yes, this includes the times when you have to tap out or end up getting hit more than you’re hitting. In fact, those are the moments that actually help you to learn and grow the most.

3) Keep calm, relax and breathe
When you first start sparring, it can be pretty nerve wrecking and overwhelming because you just don’t know how to handle the situation. Unfortunately, this might cause you to tense up. However, when you don’t relax and breathe while sparring, you’ll slow down your reaction time and this would affect your performance.

Sparring in a tense state would also cause you to move clumsily, and this would definitely hinder your strikes and defense. Once you learn to relax while sparring, you’ll notice that your movements are much more controlled and fluid. The more you spar the more relaxed you will become.

4) Be creative, and try new combinations
When you start sparring, you should focus on getting all your fundamentals right before progressing to more advanced techniques. However, that doesn’t mean you should keep striking with the same combination. Instead, why not mix and match your basics to form new combinations?

Apart from keeping your partner guessing, mixing it up would help you to be able to execute various combinations and think on your feet. Hence, you’ll learn to adapt to all kinds of situations and be unpredictable while sparring.

5) Spar with different people; a lot of different people
While it might be scary to bump fists with people you’ve never sparred with before, it’s totally worth it. When you change sparring partners, you’re actually enabling yourself to respond, adapt, and react to a variety of fighting styles and skills.

Also, you’ll learn much more from people who are at a higher level – so don’t be afraid to pair up with them. In fact, you should seize the opportunity and step out of your comfort zone. After all, facing your fears and overcoming them will help you get stronger.

6) Have fun!
I believe this is the most important thing to keep in mind when you’re sparring. Sparring should be a fun way for you to learn how to use the techniques you learned in class and elevate your game.

Always respect your sparring partner, they are not just a human punching bag – you’re all there for the same reason: to learn, grow, and become a better martial artist. So train hard, and make every sparring session count but remember to make it a fun and exciting learning session.

You can add
- Don't be afraid to get hit
- Trust in the technique and don't bail out of it.

The type of sparring that you are talking about, is one of the few times we can actually afford to get hit without it causing lots of damage. This creates a perfect opportunity for trusting a technique 100% and learning how and when to apply the technique. There have been a few times when I trusted a technique 100% and it failed me. This wasn't a bad thing because I began to learn how and when I should be using it. Martial arts techniques aren't like Jabs and Crosses. We can't just blast them out there like that. Many techniques only work when done at the right time. I wasn't afraid to get hit because I knew that my partner wasn't trying to knock my head off. He just hit me hard enough to make me rethink how I was trying to use a technique when I got the application of it wrong.
 

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Usually sparring is misunderstood with 'soft fight'.... Or the moment just to apply the basics.
Thank you very much for that! :)
Shared in a blog, if you don't mind (source included).
 

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