DeLamar.J
3rd Black Belt
I have been with my wife for 7 years, and one good way to describe a small part of what a marriage is like is, its like having a clone of myself. I have someone who hurts when I hurt, is happy when Im happy, we get double the ammount of things done, the good times can be double good, and the bad times can be double bad, ect ect, I think you get my drift.
Its like having a best friend to buddy around with you everywhere, but in a romantic way.
A marriage can also be a very bad thing if you rush in to fast. One person can be the best spouse you ever dreamed of, but if the other person isn't trying then it wont work, no matter how perfect you are, or how much you love them. It truly is something that reqires teamwork. As long as you have teamwork a marriage will be great. People in general have a natural habit of just laying back, and letting another person take care of everything if taht person will do it all without complaint. That will leave one person feeling used and taken advantage of. No matter how much your spouse gives and takes care of you, it is a must to try your best to give that back the best you can. A loving spouse will give give and give with a smile, but that loving giving person also wants the same back.
I know that is all common knowledge, but its easy to forget things like that if you get to used to being spoiled all the time. Dont let the spoiling go one way. I have alot more to say but I will let others have a go first, before I fill up the whole page.
I am very interested to hear other peoples view on marriage. I think this is going to be a very interesting thread.
Its like having a best friend to buddy around with you everywhere, but in a romantic way.
A marriage can also be a very bad thing if you rush in to fast. One person can be the best spouse you ever dreamed of, but if the other person isn't trying then it wont work, no matter how perfect you are, or how much you love them. It truly is something that reqires teamwork. As long as you have teamwork a marriage will be great. People in general have a natural habit of just laying back, and letting another person take care of everything if taht person will do it all without complaint. That will leave one person feeling used and taken advantage of. No matter how much your spouse gives and takes care of you, it is a must to try your best to give that back the best you can. A loving spouse will give give and give with a smile, but that loving giving person also wants the same back.
I know that is all common knowledge, but its easy to forget things like that if you get to used to being spoiled all the time. Dont let the spoiling go one way. I have alot more to say but I will let others have a go first, before I fill up the whole page.
I am very interested to hear other peoples view on marriage. I think this is going to be a very interesting thread.