Hi there, new to the forum, and I need some advice in my martial arts journey. As the title states, i'm in a process of finding my "own" style...to me, this isn't starting a new system, or so much changing styles, but finding out what "works for me", what feels "natural" to me, and the expanding upon that. I guess my problem, is figuring that out, other than trial and error. I think part of my problem is, not sure what I want out of martial arts anymore...I know I want to develop my skill the best I can. I DON'T know however if I want to compete anymore, which again, makes me confused as what direction to take my training. I guess my real question is this: Does anyone else feel lost of confused like this sometimes? I kinda feel really lost in this right now, and any advice would be good.