GOMAB,
Welcome to the wonderful world of FMA. I cannot really answer your question of commonality of teaching technique, but here is an attempt to help.
One of the interesting things I have found about kali is the depth / layering of the drills. Any given drill can be taken from the simple to the complex by adding movement, breakouts, transitions, extra strikes, etc. It keeps the drills interesting, and provides great learning but it can also be confusing especially for a new student.
First, talk with your instructor and tell him what your problem is. That will give him the opportunity to target his training for your needs. Often, our instructor will partner up people of similar experience and give the newer students the foundation of the drill while giving the others more of the options (of course <shameless plug> I have two really great Inosanto Kali instructors).
Second, talk with your training partner. He / she, if they are and advanced student, should be able to show you the basics and help you on your way.
Third, team up with a partner outside of class once you learn the basics and drill them. The only way you will own the basics is to drill them repeatedly. This will prepare you to go deeper in each class.
Fourth, get some supplementary material (books or tapes) of your system of kali and work on the fundamentals you find there.
Finally, donÂ’t get to frustrated. There is so much material in Kali that it takes time to feel comfortable with what is going on.
Most of all have fun. The FMAs are a set of wonderfully rich arts that are a lot of fun to practice.
JPR