KempoGuy06
Grandmaster
Very interesting story was told to me by one of the fellow students at my dojo. Apparently a young kid was acting out in class and the head instructor called him out on and said "you need to calm down and pay attention or I will have ask you to step out of class today". Fair enough, and well with in his rights to do so. Im sure it is very distracting to a kid acting crazy behind you while you are trying to teach other kids material. Well again the kid started to act up and the instructor finally stopped class and asked him to step off the training area. The kid did as he was asked but apparently the parent had a huge problem. He started yelling about how "Im paying you to teach my kid karate and not to act like a school teach and punish him" and so forth and so on. From what I was told my instructor handled it really well and explained his thoughts, but the parent was still not very happy and vowed to not come back
Now my question to the instructors out there:
- Has this happened to you?
- If yes, how did you handle the situation?
- If no, how would you handle it?
- Was my instructor right in asking the kid to leave?
This also raised an interesting question for me. Would it be right for an instructor to base his willingness to teach kids depending on how well they perform in school? Meaning if say little Timmy gets a bad grade on his report card but little Sarah gets really good grades, would it be ok if the instructor made little Timmy do drills while little Sarah gets to learn new stuff? Is an instructor allowed to get involved like this? Do any of you instructors out there have a program like this set up? Let me know.
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Now my question to the instructors out there:
- Has this happened to you?
- If yes, how did you handle the situation?
- If no, how would you handle it?
- Was my instructor right in asking the kid to leave?
This also raised an interesting question for me. Would it be right for an instructor to base his willingness to teach kids depending on how well they perform in school? Meaning if say little Timmy gets a bad grade on his report card but little Sarah gets really good grades, would it be ok if the instructor made little Timmy do drills while little Sarah gets to learn new stuff? Is an instructor allowed to get involved like this? Do any of you instructors out there have a program like this set up? Let me know.
B