most important self-defense idea

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sort of an informal poll:

you're giving a self-defense workshop. you can guarantee that all students will take home and use, effectively, one - and only one - idea.

what idea do you want them to take home?

let's simplify it and say all the students are adults, relatively able, and untrained. what one idea is the most important idea for them to take away from the workshop?
 

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Awareness. They should always be aware of their surroundings and the goings on.

Ditto! That is the single most importand self-defence principal out there - situational awareness.

I'd add: acting on your awareness as well and trusting your instincts regarding what you become aware of.
 

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Hello, Another to add to the list of one idea to take home. "TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS" ... if something does not feel right? ....react to it...Aloha
 

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Like the army drilled into me, stay alert, stay alive. Awareness is def the most important thing in SD.

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I too, am going with the majority...Awareness!!!

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I agree that awareness is number one. A close second, IMO, is mindset i.e. the willingness to act instantly and decisively when it's necessary.
 

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I would say the most important thing is that they know that they have the right to exist, the right and responsability to be safe, and that no one has the right to take that away from them. Understanding this simple yet important concept is where self-defense begins, and therefore is the highest priority (if I had to pick one thing) in my opinion.
 

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Awareness is probaly the most important SD out there knowing your surrounding is a close second.
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Ability - Everyone, regardless of size or shape has the ability to defend themselves effectively. This to me is just as important than awareness. We all have the ability to be aware of their surroundings, and aware of possible dangers and how to avoid them, but how many beleive that there is something they can do. Ability can be a wide spectrum between being able to be aware of a possible situation, to having the ability to do the right thing. From running away and avoiding the situation, to dealing head on with a confrontation. I beleive it is of the utmost importance to instill into the student the confidence in their ability to make the right decision when facing a possible confrontation. Give 'em confidence, and the right decisions come easier. Just my 2 cents.

Franco
 

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Positive mental attitude.

Awareness is great and useful, but a postive mental attitude with help them for not just times of defense but all the time.
 

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Natural awareness. It is the #1 rule in self-defense.
 

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Avoidance... which goes along with awarness. The best defense is not to have to defend yourself in the first place.
 

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While I agree that Awareness is among the top five I'd would think that sending them home with the self-confidence that says: "They don't have to be a victim anymore."
 

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