Recently my father has fallen ill and my Mother has been spending a great deal of time at the hospital with him. She has either had to take a taxi to and from the hospital or either myself, my husband or my aunt have driven her back and forth.
The Hospital location is in a high crime area of the city. Just a few days ago, a hospital worker was badly beaten less then two blocks from the hospital grounds and thus causing me to be even more careful and more worried about her safety when I am not around.
I am not sure if it is the generation, or the fact that she has never been involved in an altercation in her life, but my Mom's lack of fear or lack of preparedness has me in a bit of a tizzy. She often, IMHO, puts herself at risk by opening her purse up, leaving it open, walking between parked vehicles, not watching her surroundings, etc.
I have, to say the least, been trying to point out small but significant things she can do to help ensure her safety. Keeping her purse closed, making her carry it a certain way, how to walk around vehicles in the underground parking lot and to ask for security to acccompany her to a vehicle or outside when catching a cab.
What things do you have to remind your parents of, if anything. Do you believe them well prepared for a confrontation. Are they AWARE of potential dangers?
Any suggestions would be gratefully received. We always talk about our children and their risks, what about Mom and Dad?
The Hospital location is in a high crime area of the city. Just a few days ago, a hospital worker was badly beaten less then two blocks from the hospital grounds and thus causing me to be even more careful and more worried about her safety when I am not around.
I am not sure if it is the generation, or the fact that she has never been involved in an altercation in her life, but my Mom's lack of fear or lack of preparedness has me in a bit of a tizzy. She often, IMHO, puts herself at risk by opening her purse up, leaving it open, walking between parked vehicles, not watching her surroundings, etc.
I have, to say the least, been trying to point out small but significant things she can do to help ensure her safety. Keeping her purse closed, making her carry it a certain way, how to walk around vehicles in the underground parking lot and to ask for security to acccompany her to a vehicle or outside when catching a cab.
What things do you have to remind your parents of, if anything. Do you believe them well prepared for a confrontation. Are they AWARE of potential dangers?
Any suggestions would be gratefully received. We always talk about our children and their risks, what about Mom and Dad?