Don't Call Me Grandmaster

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Changing My Title for the General Public
Doc Fei Wong
May 12, 2004


I am thinking about taking a humble title to replace the term "grandmaster" in the general public. Of course all the students and instructors in my federation will still address me by the title of Grandmaster, because this title was awarded to me by my late and retired teachers. What made me qualified to earn this title from them and why me and not their other students? I have had people outside of my federation asked me this question from time to time. I told them that I am glad that they asked. The reason I was promoted to the title of Grandmaster is because I passed their tests and met all of their requirements for the level of martial arts skill, knowledge, ability and leadership and their other students did not. Some of their students are good in kung fu, but they were not interested in teaching and passing on their knowledge and they were not going to have schools like me.

I sent out e-mail messages to my instructors in the federation asking for suggestions for a good title for me that is humble and strong enough to represent them as the leader of the Plum Blossom International Federation that would not make any of my students and members to look bad and would not be intimidating to other people outside the federation as well. Some replies suggested that I drop the Grandmaster title to be humble, and just to use Mister or Doctor in the public. However, if I drop the title and come to a big martial arts event like an exhibition or a big open tournament, there are sometimes more than 10 grandmasters and 100 masters there. When the MC announces all of the instructors, they all have a title, but I am just a Mister or Doctor, in this situation for sure is not good for our students that I am there to represent them. For me it does not matter, but I can not be selfish in my humility and make all the students look or sound like their Grandmaster is a nobody in public events.

Some of my students suggested that I use the Chinese title. However, in the old days of China, there was no international martial arts organization and even nowadays there are only a few; including ours. The term Si-Joor Jo-Si is for the past-masters. I noticed that of some non-Chinese kung fu teachers were using the Si-Jo title nowadays! Sigung or Tai-Sifu is okay to called by the student’s students. All you need is to have one student and he also has one student, you will become the Sigung of your student’s student. Gung means grandfather or an old man.... This kind of Chinese terms are not good for the professional titles, its the family titles only.

A few of my students would like me change to the title Chief Master or Chief Teaching Master. I think the word Master alone can be intimidating to someone. Besides, some Korean martial arts have the title for their highest masters who are under the Grandmaster to call him Chief Master already. In this case I would be demoted to the 2nd class title from the Grandmaster!

I received suggested titles such as: Founding Director, Federation President, Chief Director Instructor, Executive Director Instructor, Chief Executive Instructor, Professor in Chief, Chief Scholar, Principal Scholar, Chief Coach, Keeper of the Hu Yuen Chou System and many more... Some of my students have asked me not to change the title Grandmaster.

Shall I keep the Grandmaster title for the public? If you have something which sounds good, suitable for my position and also can be humble to the public, please send it to: ••••••[email protected]
 

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Oh...I could get so evil on this thread.

How about his students call him what ever they think is protocol in their system?

How about everyone else just does the polite thing and call him Mr. ?
 

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BallistikMike said:
Oh...I could get so evil on this thread.

How about his students call him what ever they think is protocol in their system?

How about everyone else just does the polite thing and call him Mr. ?

bingo. This was actually printed as a collumn in one of the MA magazines (Inside Kung Fu, maybe). It seems like an arrogant way to make himself look humble to the public. Ego is an amazing thing...
 

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Titles are earned in organizations that you belong to. Other then that it should just be politeness that guides your way.

If polite by your standards means addressing people by the title "Grand Master" then it will fit for you.

The way I see things when people ask for titles they dont deserve them.

When people shun the titles, more then llikely they could hold the standard of the title being thrust upon them by their peers.

Unless your in the circle of the organization and the people in that organization mean something to you the title is just just complete crap to anyone else.
 
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BallistikMike said:
Titles are earned in organizations that you belong to. Other then that it should just be politeness that guides your way.

If polite by your standards means addressing people by the title "Grand Master" then it will fit for you.

The way I see things when people ask for titles they dont deserve them.

When people shun the titles, more then llikely they could hold the standard of the title being thrust upon them by their peers.

Unless your in the circle of the organization and the people in that organization mean something to you the title is just just complete crap to anyone else.
BINGO! I too wondered why "mister" didn't occur to someone.
 

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Sigung is good so is Apo.

If you are a Grandmaster and don't feel like the name is appropriate, your problem.
If it is brought up as I think it is, for I have heard this issue on prior occasion and believe it is brought up to antagonize.
The ignorant will still be conversing as if it is something to be considered. But it is not worthy of my written post.

The only reason I address it, is because in my perspective, it is a wolf in sheeps clothing. If I am wrong I will apologize. But I don't think so.

Harley
 
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Doc,(respectfull kenpo bow), Of course I believe you desrve the tittle of "Grand Master",I think I understand what you are trying to acomplish. You are looking for a way for Martial artsts and the non-martial artist to not be intimitated by your tittle. I truly appreciate that. It does show humility. However,your position does require some sort of tittle so your earned position is clearly understood. My suggestion is this:"Chairman". You can add whatever you want. Chairman of the Board(CEO), Chaiman of west coast kenpo,Chairman of diplomatic affairs,Diplomatic chairman,ect.
 
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Gary Crawford said:
Doc,(respectfull kenpo bow), Of course I believe you desrve the tittle of "Grand Master",I think I understand what you are trying to acomplish. You are looking for a way for Martial artsts and the non-martial artist to not be intimitated by your tittle. I truly appreciate that. It does show humility. However,your position does require some sort of tittle so your earned position is clearly understood. My suggestion is this:"Chairman". You can add whatever you want. Chairman of the Board(CEO), Chaiman of west coast kenpo,Chairman of diplomatic affairs,Diplomatic chairman,ect.
Whoa Brother. I posted the article/letter for discussion. Those were not my words. I take an opposing view, and personally will never use the title "Grandmaster." From my perspective the title is inappropriate for any living individual to assume, in an Americal Culturally based entity. I have an academic title some use, and I have an MSU title "SMP" rarely used, and mister. Any of them is fine. By daughters call me "Daddy" when they want something, and "Father" when they don't want my advice. Thanks for the plug anyway. :)
 
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Harley Quinn said:
Sigung is good so is Apo.

If you are a Grandmaster and don't feel like the name is appropriate, your problem.
If it is brought up as I think it is, for I have heard this issue on prior occasion and believe it is brought up to antagonize.
The ignorant will still be conversing as if it is something to be considered. But it is not worthy of my written post.

The only reason I address it, is because in my perspective, it is a wolf in sheeps clothing. If I am wrong I will apologize. But I don't think so.

Harley
Just perhaps sir, you should re-read the original post to refresh your perspective of the nature of this discussion, so you might be on the same page as the rest of us.
 
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kevin kilroe said:
How about "Big Daddy"? I hope it is worthy of my written post.
I can't tell you who calls me that, but she is defintely allowed. :)
 
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I just call myself, SUPREME ULTIMATE SENIOR GRAND MASTER PROFESSOR. You should try it Doc.
 

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Almost sounds like he dosen't want to drop the title at all. Nothing wrong with that except it's mis-leading. If he needs a headmaster type of title, maybe he should make one up unique to his federation then he would not be compared to the other styles.

I also think that when he speaks of the "general public" he is speaking of the "general martial art public" because he would have to be full of himself to be thinking how the "real" general public should address him.

I thought that distinction made it sound worse that his situation really is.
 

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