There were parents in a nearby observation room! And NO ONE stepped in?!?!?!?!? :angry: I can appreciate competitive spirit. I can appreciate the concept of conditioning (being new to MA, I have a very limited experience here), but my understanding is that conditioning is based on what the instructor thinks the student can handle...not on what an 11 year old judges as "cool". I can even appreciate challenging oneself, but shouldn't the instructors have been a voice of reason and control?
That's it...put this down in the books as another example of
some people are just sheep. grrr, hiss, spit, growl!
There is a big difference between "Conditioning" and pure stupidity.
This seems to border on the latter.
What may be even more disturbing as you have stated, is why no one even asked what the **** is that instructor doing to that kid and why would they not remove their kids from that dojo as well.
It just baffles me. You would think that anyone observing and a non MA more so, would at least question what was going on.
-Marc-