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chris_มวยไทย
01-05-2007, 05:55 PM
....died 11 days before christmas in a car crash. he lived over in the states like most of you guys here on MT. its hard to believe it happened , its hard to accept it.

i posted this to pay my respects to him , sorry if this post doesnt belong here.

why do good people die

Tames D
01-05-2007, 06:02 PM
My sincere condolences. I know what you are going through.

Jade Tigress
01-05-2007, 06:06 PM
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you. :asian:

chris_มวยไทย
01-05-2007, 06:19 PM
thank you so much!

Brian R. VanCise
01-05-2007, 06:20 PM
I am sorry to hear about your loss as well. Hang in there and my prayers are with you. :asian:

rutherford
01-05-2007, 07:05 PM
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terryl965
01-05-2007, 07:06 PM
I'm so sorry for your lost :asian:

Infinite
01-05-2007, 07:41 PM
As I just found out this morning my grandmother has pancreatic cancer and will die in 2 months.

I empathize for more than I would like I'm afraid.

Oh and it most deservidly belongs here. Comrads are comrads fallen or otherwise and as such they deserve our honor.

Jonathan Randall
01-05-2007, 07:45 PM
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Condolences.

Carol
01-05-2007, 08:18 PM
What Infinite said. Heroes are heroes.

I'm not sure why good people die. I just know it hurts when they do.

Very sorry for your loss. :asian:

jdinca
01-05-2007, 09:58 PM
My condolences. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. :asian:

MSTCNC
01-05-2007, 10:23 PM
What Infinite said. Heroes are heroes.

I'm not sure why good people die. I just know it hurts when they do.

Very sorry for your loss. :asian:

I couldn't put it any better than that...

My thoughts are with you, and your mates family, cobber!

Like the song says... only the good die young...

Your Brother in the arts,

Andrew

P.S. My thoughts are also with you and yours, Infinite!

Drac
01-05-2007, 10:31 PM
..i posted this to pay my respects to him , sorry if this post doesnt belong here.why do good people die

I lost my best friend to cancer 9 years ago..It gets easier, but its still not right..Why do good people die??? I have no answers...

chris_มวยไทย
01-06-2007, 09:41 AM
i never expected so many posts! it feels somewhat better knowing there are poeple that care , thanks again guys

and infinite , sorry to hear about you grandmother , my sencere condolences are with you

Drac
01-06-2007, 09:56 AM
i never expected so many posts! it feels somewhat better knowing there are poeple that care , thanks again guys

We are family....Despite where you reside or what discipline you study..WE ( martial artists) are all part of a large family..We share a bond that is rivaled by very few groups..Military, Police and Fire share similar bonds...

MJS
01-06-2007, 09:57 AM
Sorry for your loss.:asian:

exile
01-06-2007, 10:02 AM
Comrads are comrads fallen or otherwise and as such they deserve our honor.

:asian:

Infinite
01-06-2007, 01:02 PM
I have been thinking on why good people die. Obviously it has been on my mind and I have concluded two things I think I feel are true.

1) Death of the good reminds us first and formost that they WERE good. It plants a flag into history defining that person and their ideals for all eternity.

2) It provides inspiration to those of us that must carry on.

3) Finally it makes the ones we have loved and moved on mean more to us. We may wish we had them forever but, once we do not the impact of their lives weighs in full force apon us. We can now evaluate their lives in total rather than potential. In doing so we complete them and ourselves in the cycle of life.

I suppose I'm just throwing this out because I'm still working through it. I'm not sure if it really does hold any real value or if this is just my first step at addressing my emotions.

kenpo0324
01-06-2007, 01:47 PM
My sincere condolences.

Xue Sheng
01-06-2007, 03:13 PM
....died 11 days before christmas in a car crash. he lived over in the states like most of you guys here on MT. its hard to believe it happened , its hard to accept it.

i posted this to pay my respects to him , sorry if this post doesnt belong here.

why do good people die

My condolences :asian:


We are family....Despite where you reside or what discipline you study..WE ( martial artists) are all part of a large family..We share a bond that is rivaled by very few groups..Military, Police and Fire share similar bonds...

Well Said.

chris_มวยไทย
01-06-2007, 06:15 PM
I have been thinking on why good people die. Obviously it has been on my mind and I have concluded two things I think I feel are true.

1) Death of the good reminds us first and formost that they WERE good. It plants a flag into history defining that person and their ideals for all eternity.

2) It provides inspiration to those of us that must carry on.

3) Finally it makes the ones we have loved and moved on mean more to us. We may wish we had them forever but, once we do not the impact of their lives weighs in full force apon us. We can now evaluate their lives in total rather than potential. In doing so we complete them and ourselves in the cycle of life.

I suppose I'm just throwing this out because I'm still working through it. I'm not sure if it really does hold any real value or if this is just my first step at addressing my emotions.

those are some good points , its a hard question to answer

IcemanSK
01-08-2007, 11:13 AM
My condolences on your loss, Chris.

Slihn
01-08-2007, 11:35 AM
Sorry about your lost friend.Dont worry though,Im pretty sure that your firned is looking down on you smiling.