wake for instructors grandmother

[rachel]

I have a question. My instructors grandmother died and the wake is tomorrow. Should I attend? I didn't know his grandmother but I know his mom (whose mother it is that died)from her coming to the Dojo and talking with her,etc. I'm friends with 2 of his sisters, our children are friends also. And I work there too. Some people are saying because I don't know the grandmother I shouldn't attend. And that my teacher may not want us to see him upset. I just want to be there for the family members I do know for moral support. My gut tells me to attend. What would you do?

[don bohrer]

Rachel,
I would go. I think it's apropriate.

don

[KanoLives]

Hey Rachel,

Mike and I are going to go. I think we're gonna go at like 5:00.

[rachel]

Originally posted by KanoLives
Hey Rachel,

Mike and I are going to go. I think we're gonna go at like 5:00. Adoni, I've already made up my mind to go. I have to help Cara with the 4:30 and 5:05 classes and then I'm going to ET's to change. We'll probably be there around 6 or so.

[stickarts]

a brief appearance would probably mean a lot to the instructor and family.